Time have passed so quickly. In a few months time and I'm gonna be 30 years old already.
Just the past saturday I attended Jeffrey and his wife's wedding dinner. Finally our Mr ITE beng is also getting married.
Feel so happy for him.
I'm quite surprised that he invited us as we didn't really keep in touch with each other ever since we graduated from ITE which is like in the year 2003.
Its been 10 years already.
I still remember last year I bumped into him at Shanghai Dolly and we still truing to recognise each other. I guess its because of that time so he invited us to his wedding dinner.
Hahaha !
All of us attended except one. I wun say who but all of us know who it is. Sometimes I really wonder our friendship to this particular friend, how much does it mean to this friend of us.
Whenever he has a girlfriend, we would be treated as invisible or non important. He'll only look for us when his girlfriend is not free which means when he doesn't have to accompany her.
I'm not saying that his girlfriend is not a nice person or something. I find his girlfriend is quite a nice person even though I only met her once.
I mean a few of my frenz also behaved in the same way after they had a girlfriend but his one is really abit over.
When we ask him something about he and his girlfriend, he'll juz plainly ignore us as if we're transparent.
This is god damm irritating seriously. If you dun feel like answering at least say you dun wanna answer, dun fucking cheebye plain ignore ok. How would you feel if you're in our shoes.
And last week, he juz last minute inform everybody that he's not attending Jeffrey's wedding dinner.
What the fuck rite !
And the reason he had given is because his girlfriend bought tickets to Genting and his share is included.
Seriously, the importance of going Genting with your 3mths old girlfriend compared to the wedding dinner of a 12yrs old friendship buddy, anybody can gauge which is heavier.
Yes, you will say that if you do not go Genting with your girlfriend, it'll be a waste of money and effort from your girlfriend and she'll be disappointed because its a surprise to you.
Tell you the truth, even though I everytime shoot you like a mother fucking phua cheebye, I can understand it.
But did it ever occur to you that how disappointed we are ? We do not meet up Jeffrey so often, its like the 1st time for so many years and its his big day.
A trip to Genting over the weekend is something which you can do it almost every weekend if its well planned. But the wedding dinner of a happy couple only happens once in a lifetime.
Imagine how much effort he has put into contacting us and asking us to attend the wedding. We may not be very once to him but he put in the effort to invite us and arranged us in a table to sit together.
Its a happy occasion and day to him and he hoped that the people he invited will attend but you disappointed us badly.
You may say that I'm a not understanding phua chee bye thats always picking on you.
Seriously its fine with me. I'm not alwats picking on you but I juz want you to understand and know the disappointment I had in you.
Oh well, everything takes time to happen. If you can't realise it in due time. There's nothing much I can do also. There's only so much an individual can do.
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