Sunday, April 28, 2013
Saturday, April 20, 2013
19-04-2013
Finally we had a short meetup session with the ITE kakis. Having a dinner together and a short drinking session.
Its been more den a month since we have meetup as the last meetup is during one of our fren's wedding dinner.
A meetup session between friends os always nice as we tend to update each other on what have happened during the period that we did not meet up.
For me, I told my frenz about my South Korea trip, one of them talked about his plan for a special occasion, one of them talked about work and one of them tslked about his girlfriend.
And here the conversation officially started.
As all of us only either saw his girlfriend once or didn't even see her before. So we're very concerned about their progress.
Having being together for a few months already, everything seems to be going smoothly for them. Having meals together frequently, working at the same place and going overseas together for a few times.
But all these is what we've been thinking as our friend will normally ignore us when he's in a relationship, so actuallynwe're quite used to it already.
But after having the Q&A session with him. We found out that actually he is having quite alot of pressure from this relationship. Physically, mentally and financially.
Having an age gap of 6 or 7 years old between them, both of them tend to have different thinking and different opinions in things they see and they do. And when the girl's position at work is higher den my friend, which doesn't improve to the situation.
My friend told us that his girlfriend hope that he can continue his part-time degree so that it will help towarda hom climbing to a higher position at his workplace.
Of course its good if my fren gets his degree. It will improve his payslip and the stability of his job. But all these requires time and money.
Studying part time in Singapore is definitely not something cheap and it'll easily require 3 to 5 years to complete it if everything goes smooth. If it takes 3 years, my fren will be 33 and if it takes 5 yrs, my fren will be 35. What if my fren cannot make it, the time and money poured in will be down the drain.
My friend owns a car and so naturally he'll send his girlfriend back home and den go home. This may sound normal but actually its not on the way for my friend. Their workplace is at Queenstown. My friend stays Clementi and his girlfroend stays near the Geylang area.
Its actually like travelling double for my fren. The extra petrol required and the ERP needed to pay daily accumulates up to quite an amount.
And most of the time when they go for meals, my friend is the one paying. This is something common as most of the time the guy will pay for the meal.
But as a girlfriend, do also try to help and understand mah. My friend position at the workplace is lower den u so obviously his salary is definitely lesser den u.
If before you guys got together you can travel by public transport, I dun see why u can't do it now. You may say that my friend insist in sending you home but YOU also can insist in rejecting his insist mah.
If you guys want to be together, there muz be mutual understanding between both of you. My fren can save up the money for the future of the both of you.
And since you know he's earning less den you so what you can do is contribute sometimes for meals together or something. Being the boyfriend doesn't mean he has to pay for everything.
Don't give the excuse of he insisted or guys should pay for it. So when happy both happy but when suffer only one suffer ?
Be understanding abit. This world is everything for themself. You may be young, you still have alot of chances in everything but my friend is already hitting 30 years old. If you're serious about this relationship, please understand and di not place your eyes so high and have expectations as high as where the skies are.
Nothing much for me to say and do also. The decision lies in the both of them. At the end of the day I'm juz a person that happened to walk into the path of their lives which can be erased easily from the memories of everyone.
Its been more den a month since we have meetup as the last meetup is during one of our fren's wedding dinner.
A meetup session between friends os always nice as we tend to update each other on what have happened during the period that we did not meet up.
For me, I told my frenz about my South Korea trip, one of them talked about his plan for a special occasion, one of them talked about work and one of them tslked about his girlfriend.
And here the conversation officially started.
As all of us only either saw his girlfriend once or didn't even see her before. So we're very concerned about their progress.
Having being together for a few months already, everything seems to be going smoothly for them. Having meals together frequently, working at the same place and going overseas together for a few times.
But all these is what we've been thinking as our friend will normally ignore us when he's in a relationship, so actuallynwe're quite used to it already.
But after having the Q&A session with him. We found out that actually he is having quite alot of pressure from this relationship. Physically, mentally and financially.
Having an age gap of 6 or 7 years old between them, both of them tend to have different thinking and different opinions in things they see and they do. And when the girl's position at work is higher den my friend, which doesn't improve to the situation.
My friend told us that his girlfriend hope that he can continue his part-time degree so that it will help towarda hom climbing to a higher position at his workplace.
Of course its good if my fren gets his degree. It will improve his payslip and the stability of his job. But all these requires time and money.
Studying part time in Singapore is definitely not something cheap and it'll easily require 3 to 5 years to complete it if everything goes smooth. If it takes 3 years, my fren will be 33 and if it takes 5 yrs, my fren will be 35. What if my fren cannot make it, the time and money poured in will be down the drain.
My friend owns a car and so naturally he'll send his girlfriend back home and den go home. This may sound normal but actually its not on the way for my friend. Their workplace is at Queenstown. My friend stays Clementi and his girlfroend stays near the Geylang area.
Its actually like travelling double for my fren. The extra petrol required and the ERP needed to pay daily accumulates up to quite an amount.
And most of the time when they go for meals, my friend is the one paying. This is something common as most of the time the guy will pay for the meal.
But as a girlfriend, do also try to help and understand mah. My friend position at the workplace is lower den u so obviously his salary is definitely lesser den u.
If before you guys got together you can travel by public transport, I dun see why u can't do it now. You may say that my friend insist in sending you home but YOU also can insist in rejecting his insist mah.
If you guys want to be together, there muz be mutual understanding between both of you. My fren can save up the money for the future of the both of you.
And since you know he's earning less den you so what you can do is contribute sometimes for meals together or something. Being the boyfriend doesn't mean he has to pay for everything.
Don't give the excuse of he insisted or guys should pay for it. So when happy both happy but when suffer only one suffer ?
Be understanding abit. This world is everything for themself. You may be young, you still have alot of chances in everything but my friend is already hitting 30 years old. If you're serious about this relationship, please understand and di not place your eyes so high and have expectations as high as where the skies are.
Nothing much for me to say and do also. The decision lies in the both of them. At the end of the day I'm juz a person that happened to walk into the path of their lives which can be erased easily from the memories of everyone.
Monday, April 15, 2013
15-04-2013
Here I am writing a blogpost again. Nowadays I'll use my mobile to write my blog coz its so easy now as any mobile device can access to the net.
Something depressing have happened lately.
One of my fren his son is having the full month celebration. A pity I have to woek so I did not attend the celebration
According to my frenz that attended, my fren is full of smile and happiness during the party. Everybody was congratulating him and he replied thanks.
But the happiness shown on the face may not be genuine. You'll never know deep down what is he thinking.
After the celebration and everything, my fren went to work. As he works for a catering company, his working hours us quite irregular as food catering business does not have regular timing.
Monday arrives and he's not back home. Very common, happened alot of times. He felt tired after collecting all the catering stuff and he'll juz sleep in the car.
During night time, we sensed something strange, he hasn't call back home and inform anything. The wife, which is also our fren, is worried. She ask us to keep a lookout for him.
None of us is able to find or contact him. All started to get worried whether did anything hapen to him. Uncontactable in anyway. One of us went to his workplace and found out that he did not went to work.
We suggest they make a police report as we duno what have happened. Everyone is worried like hell, trying to find his whereabouts.
But to say the truth, there's nothing we can do except for waiting for news. We do not have the resources and time as all of us are working adults. So we should juz trust the police and let them do the job.
Comes wednesday morning. Yes, its wednesday already. The wife told us he's back home. All of us felt relieved but the next thing is a shocker. He wants to leave the wife.
What The Fuck !
Their son juz celebrated full month and their house is soon to be ready to move in. And now my fren suddenly says he wants to leave the family.
I duno whether izzit he wants a divorce or something but from what we know, he isn't the kind of person that would have an affair outside.
We are all puzzled by his actions. But at this moment, anything that we say will not make a difference in his actions. If the son and the flat is not able to make him change his decision, we do not know what can make him change his decision.
Life, marriage, family. All seems so strong but just a small thing will break it.
Something depressing have happened lately.
One of my fren his son is having the full month celebration. A pity I have to woek so I did not attend the celebration
According to my frenz that attended, my fren is full of smile and happiness during the party. Everybody was congratulating him and he replied thanks.
But the happiness shown on the face may not be genuine. You'll never know deep down what is he thinking.
After the celebration and everything, my fren went to work. As he works for a catering company, his working hours us quite irregular as food catering business does not have regular timing.
Monday arrives and he's not back home. Very common, happened alot of times. He felt tired after collecting all the catering stuff and he'll juz sleep in the car.
During night time, we sensed something strange, he hasn't call back home and inform anything. The wife, which is also our fren, is worried. She ask us to keep a lookout for him.
None of us is able to find or contact him. All started to get worried whether did anything hapen to him. Uncontactable in anyway. One of us went to his workplace and found out that he did not went to work.
We suggest they make a police report as we duno what have happened. Everyone is worried like hell, trying to find his whereabouts.
But to say the truth, there's nothing we can do except for waiting for news. We do not have the resources and time as all of us are working adults. So we should juz trust the police and let them do the job.
Comes wednesday morning. Yes, its wednesday already. The wife told us he's back home. All of us felt relieved but the next thing is a shocker. He wants to leave the wife.
What The Fuck !
Their son juz celebrated full month and their house is soon to be ready to move in. And now my fren suddenly says he wants to leave the family.
I duno whether izzit he wants a divorce or something but from what we know, he isn't the kind of person that would have an affair outside.
We are all puzzled by his actions. But at this moment, anything that we say will not make a difference in his actions. If the son and the flat is not able to make him change his decision, we do not know what can make him change his decision.
Life, marriage, family. All seems so strong but just a small thing will break it.
Monday, April 08, 2013
Saturday, April 06, 2013
06/04/2013
Its been a few weeks since I've updated. Kinda busy nowadays.
Well, I'm back safe and sound from South Korea !
Finally I've been to South Korea, the land of Girls Generation, T-ara, Apink and BoA !
Its the first time I've gone overseas with frenz and not with my bosses and colleagues as the previous trips are all with them.
South Korea is actually the last country in my wanna visit list as I've been to Hongkong, Taipei and Japan.
All these while to me, travelling seems like something which is near impossible for me to do due to my illness which I have to bring more things with me den a normal healthy person.
Because of these reasons, I find travelling a very turn off thing coz it will cause inconvinence to the people whom I'm travelling with.
But I'm very glad that all the people I've travelled with are very nice and understanding, always asking me is everything ok during the trip.
When I was young, I only get to know about other countries through watching variety shows, watching dramas and of course through the internet.
I never have the thought of travelling overseas when young due to all the travelling expenses like Airfare, Lodging and of course spending at that country. All these can easily add up to $2000 or more depends on the country.
$2000 may not seem to be a big amount to alot of people but $2000 may also seem to be a big amount to people also.
Like for myself, I do not really spend alot daily on things like gadgets or toys but I do spend quite alot on my meals which can easily hit $20 a day.
One thing that turns me off about travelling is that in my case, I have a savings account that I'll save $300 every month so that I could have some cash when I really do need it urgently.
Like for example, this trip to South Korea. The airfare is $850 and lodging adds up to around $350 which in total is $1200, and this doesn't include the money that I've spend there.
All these will add up to near $2000 like what I've said earlier. I will need like 7 months to be able to save up to this amount. And for a 5 day holiday, this amount of money in my bank is gone.
For me it requires 7 months to save up this amount, but to some other people who are earning lesser den me, they will need an even longer period to save up.
But I firmly believe that everyone should have their chance to travel to a country that they really wanted.
When I was small, I always wanted to go Japan as I'm attracted to the games, animes and mangas produced from the country.
When I hit my teens, I wanted to visit Hongkong due to the idolising of Andy Lau and Aaron Kwok.
When I grew even older, Taipei became the country I wanted to go due to all the Taiwan variety shows and dramas ehich always showed good food of Taiwan.
It may sound like a luxury that not everybody can afford to have, but travelling and looking at the real thing us definitely better den only looking at them through the tv and magazines.
The next post I'll be back with my experience on South Korea !
Well, I'm back safe and sound from South Korea !
Finally I've been to South Korea, the land of Girls Generation, T-ara, Apink and BoA !
Its the first time I've gone overseas with frenz and not with my bosses and colleagues as the previous trips are all with them.
South Korea is actually the last country in my wanna visit list as I've been to Hongkong, Taipei and Japan.
All these while to me, travelling seems like something which is near impossible for me to do due to my illness which I have to bring more things with me den a normal healthy person.
Because of these reasons, I find travelling a very turn off thing coz it will cause inconvinence to the people whom I'm travelling with.
But I'm very glad that all the people I've travelled with are very nice and understanding, always asking me is everything ok during the trip.
When I was young, I only get to know about other countries through watching variety shows, watching dramas and of course through the internet.
I never have the thought of travelling overseas when young due to all the travelling expenses like Airfare, Lodging and of course spending at that country. All these can easily add up to $2000 or more depends on the country.
$2000 may not seem to be a big amount to alot of people but $2000 may also seem to be a big amount to people also.
Like for myself, I do not really spend alot daily on things like gadgets or toys but I do spend quite alot on my meals which can easily hit $20 a day.
One thing that turns me off about travelling is that in my case, I have a savings account that I'll save $300 every month so that I could have some cash when I really do need it urgently.
Like for example, this trip to South Korea. The airfare is $850 and lodging adds up to around $350 which in total is $1200, and this doesn't include the money that I've spend there.
All these will add up to near $2000 like what I've said earlier. I will need like 7 months to be able to save up to this amount. And for a 5 day holiday, this amount of money in my bank is gone.
For me it requires 7 months to save up this amount, but to some other people who are earning lesser den me, they will need an even longer period to save up.
But I firmly believe that everyone should have their chance to travel to a country that they really wanted.
When I was small, I always wanted to go Japan as I'm attracted to the games, animes and mangas produced from the country.
When I hit my teens, I wanted to visit Hongkong due to the idolising of Andy Lau and Aaron Kwok.
When I grew even older, Taipei became the country I wanted to go due to all the Taiwan variety shows and dramas ehich always showed good food of Taiwan.
It may sound like a luxury that not everybody can afford to have, but travelling and looking at the real thing us definitely better den only looking at them through the tv and magazines.
The next post I'll be back with my experience on South Korea !
Thursday, March 21, 2013
21/03/2013
Finally ! Today is the 21st already !
Just one more week today and I'll be in Korea !
Finally the trip is coming so soon. That time when we bought the air tix during january, we still keep saying still long lah, end of march.
And now its coming next week.
We have not plan where to go and what to do there. Its a free and easy trip.
We do have a few places we wanna go but we have not plan like when to go where. But we're planning to go from far to near.
The temperature there is from 3 - 15 degree so at least a windbreaker should be needed but I duno whether is winter wear required or not coz I've never experienced this kinda weather before.
I'm looking forward to the things I can eat but actually I'm not a big fan of korea food so I hope I'll be satisfied with the things I get to eat there.
This is the first time I'm going overseas with my frenz as the past few times I've only went overseas with my towkays and colleagues. Wonder how's the experience like.
Yup, back to work now !
Just one more week today and I'll be in Korea !
Finally the trip is coming so soon. That time when we bought the air tix during january, we still keep saying still long lah, end of march.
And now its coming next week.
We have not plan where to go and what to do there. Its a free and easy trip.
We do have a few places we wanna go but we have not plan like when to go where. But we're planning to go from far to near.
The temperature there is from 3 - 15 degree so at least a windbreaker should be needed but I duno whether is winter wear required or not coz I've never experienced this kinda weather before.
I'm looking forward to the things I can eat but actually I'm not a big fan of korea food so I hope I'll be satisfied with the things I get to eat there.
This is the first time I'm going overseas with my frenz as the past few times I've only went overseas with my towkays and colleagues. Wonder how's the experience like.
Yup, back to work now !
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
Tuesday, March 12, 2013
12/03/2013
Finally our Sam & Steph have been promoted to parents !
They got married in the year 2010 and finally their son have arrived in this world !
How time flies
The usual ITE group of the 6 of us, only me and norman are the only two that is not married nor attached at the moment.
The rest have all gotten married and have kids already, except for one of them who is married, have a son and divorced already.
Its been 11 years since we got to know each other already.
The 2nd year of my ITE life, the class which is more beng but definitely more fun and laughter.
In the blink of an eye, all of us reached adulthood, attended the school of social studies, the increasing of personal respobsibility.
At this point onwards, we have to andwer to everything we have done. No more acting pitiful and make our parents cover our shit.
For Sam & Steph, their new journey begins. How they will bring up their son is nothing short of difficulties, endurance and patience. A long and infinite journey.
All the best to them ! Frenz Forever !
They got married in the year 2010 and finally their son have arrived in this world !
How time flies
The usual ITE group of the 6 of us, only me and norman are the only two that is not married nor attached at the moment.
The rest have all gotten married and have kids already, except for one of them who is married, have a son and divorced already.
Its been 11 years since we got to know each other already.
The 2nd year of my ITE life, the class which is more beng but definitely more fun and laughter.
In the blink of an eye, all of us reached adulthood, attended the school of social studies, the increasing of personal respobsibility.
At this point onwards, we have to andwer to everything we have done. No more acting pitiful and make our parents cover our shit.
For Sam & Steph, their new journey begins. How they will bring up their son is nothing short of difficulties, endurance and patience. A long and infinite journey.
All the best to them ! Frenz Forever !
Tuesday, March 05, 2013
05/03/2013
Yo guys !
Time have passed so quickly. In a few months time and I'm gonna be 30 years old already.
Just the past saturday I attended Jeffrey and his wife's wedding dinner. Finally our Mr ITE beng is also getting married.
Feel so happy for him.
I'm quite surprised that he invited us as we didn't really keep in touch with each other ever since we graduated from ITE which is like in the year 2003.
Its been 10 years already.
I still remember last year I bumped into him at Shanghai Dolly and we still truing to recognise each other. I guess its because of that time so he invited us to his wedding dinner.
Hahaha !
All of us attended except one. I wun say who but all of us know who it is. Sometimes I really wonder our friendship to this particular friend, how much does it mean to this friend of us.
Whenever he has a girlfriend, we would be treated as invisible or non important. He'll only look for us when his girlfriend is not free which means when he doesn't have to accompany her.
I'm not saying that his girlfriend is not a nice person or something. I find his girlfriend is quite a nice person even though I only met her once.
I mean a few of my frenz also behaved in the same way after they had a girlfriend but his one is really abit over.
When we ask him something about he and his girlfriend, he'll juz plainly ignore us as if we're transparent.
This is god damm irritating seriously. If you dun feel like answering at least say you dun wanna answer, dun fucking cheebye plain ignore ok. How would you feel if you're in our shoes.
And last week, he juz last minute inform everybody that he's not attending Jeffrey's wedding dinner.
What the fuck rite !
And the reason he had given is because his girlfriend bought tickets to Genting and his share is included.
Seriously, the importance of going Genting with your 3mths old girlfriend compared to the wedding dinner of a 12yrs old friendship buddy, anybody can gauge which is heavier.
Yes, you will say that if you do not go Genting with your girlfriend, it'll be a waste of money and effort from your girlfriend and she'll be disappointed because its a surprise to you.
Tell you the truth, even though I everytime shoot you like a mother fucking phua cheebye, I can understand it.
But did it ever occur to you that how disappointed we are ? We do not meet up Jeffrey so often, its like the 1st time for so many years and its his big day.
A trip to Genting over the weekend is something which you can do it almost every weekend if its well planned. But the wedding dinner of a happy couple only happens once in a lifetime.
Imagine how much effort he has put into contacting us and asking us to attend the wedding. We may not be very once to him but he put in the effort to invite us and arranged us in a table to sit together.
Its a happy occasion and day to him and he hoped that the people he invited will attend but you disappointed us badly.
You may say that I'm a not understanding phua chee bye thats always picking on you.
Seriously its fine with me. I'm not alwats picking on you but I juz want you to understand and know the disappointment I had in you.
Oh well, everything takes time to happen. If you can't realise it in due time. There's nothing much I can do also. There's only so much an individual can do.
Time have passed so quickly. In a few months time and I'm gonna be 30 years old already.
Just the past saturday I attended Jeffrey and his wife's wedding dinner. Finally our Mr ITE beng is also getting married.
Feel so happy for him.
I'm quite surprised that he invited us as we didn't really keep in touch with each other ever since we graduated from ITE which is like in the year 2003.
Its been 10 years already.
I still remember last year I bumped into him at Shanghai Dolly and we still truing to recognise each other. I guess its because of that time so he invited us to his wedding dinner.
Hahaha !
All of us attended except one. I wun say who but all of us know who it is. Sometimes I really wonder our friendship to this particular friend, how much does it mean to this friend of us.
Whenever he has a girlfriend, we would be treated as invisible or non important. He'll only look for us when his girlfriend is not free which means when he doesn't have to accompany her.
I'm not saying that his girlfriend is not a nice person or something. I find his girlfriend is quite a nice person even though I only met her once.
I mean a few of my frenz also behaved in the same way after they had a girlfriend but his one is really abit over.
When we ask him something about he and his girlfriend, he'll juz plainly ignore us as if we're transparent.
This is god damm irritating seriously. If you dun feel like answering at least say you dun wanna answer, dun fucking cheebye plain ignore ok. How would you feel if you're in our shoes.
And last week, he juz last minute inform everybody that he's not attending Jeffrey's wedding dinner.
What the fuck rite !
And the reason he had given is because his girlfriend bought tickets to Genting and his share is included.
Seriously, the importance of going Genting with your 3mths old girlfriend compared to the wedding dinner of a 12yrs old friendship buddy, anybody can gauge which is heavier.
Yes, you will say that if you do not go Genting with your girlfriend, it'll be a waste of money and effort from your girlfriend and she'll be disappointed because its a surprise to you.
Tell you the truth, even though I everytime shoot you like a mother fucking phua cheebye, I can understand it.
But did it ever occur to you that how disappointed we are ? We do not meet up Jeffrey so often, its like the 1st time for so many years and its his big day.
A trip to Genting over the weekend is something which you can do it almost every weekend if its well planned. But the wedding dinner of a happy couple only happens once in a lifetime.
Imagine how much effort he has put into contacting us and asking us to attend the wedding. We may not be very once to him but he put in the effort to invite us and arranged us in a table to sit together.
Its a happy occasion and day to him and he hoped that the people he invited will attend but you disappointed us badly.
You may say that I'm a not understanding phua chee bye thats always picking on you.
Seriously its fine with me. I'm not alwats picking on you but I juz want you to understand and know the disappointment I had in you.
Oh well, everything takes time to happen. If you can't realise it in due time. There's nothing much I can do also. There's only so much an individual can do.
05/03/2013
Yo guys !
Time have passed so quickly. In a few months time and I'm gonna be 30 years old already.
Just the past saturday I attended Jeffrey and his wife's wedding dinner. Finally our Mr ITE beng is also getting married.
Feel so happy for him.
I'm quite surprised that he invited us as we didn't really keep in touch with each other ever since we graduated from ITE which is like in the year 2003.
Its been 10 years already.
I still remember last year I bumped into him at Shanghai Dolly and we still truing to recognise each other. I guess its because of that time so he invited us to his wedding dinner.
Hahaha !
All of us attended except one. I wun say who but all of us know who it is. Sometimes I really wonder our friendship to this particular friend, how much does it mean to this friend of us.
Whenever he has a girlfriend, we would be treated as invisible or non important. He'll only look for us when his girlfriend is not free which means when he doesn't have to accompany her.
I'm not saying that his girlfriend is not a nice person or something. I find his girlfriend is quite a nice person even though I only met her once.
I mean a few of my frenz also behaved in the same way after they had a girlfriend but his one is really abit over.
When we ask him something about he and his girlfriend, he'll juz plainly ignore us as if we're transparent.
This is god damm irritating seriously. If you dun feel like answering at least say you dun wanna answer, dun fucking cheebye plain ignore ok. How would you feel if you're in our shoes.
And last week, he juz last minute inform everybody that he's not attending Jeffrey's wedding dinner.
What the fuck rite !
And the reason he had given is because his girlfriend bought tickets to Genting and his share is included.
Seriously, the importance of going Genting with your 3mths old girlfriend compared to the wedding dinner of a 12yrs old friendship buddy, anybody can gauge which is heavier.
Yes, you will say that if you do not go Genting with your girlfriend, it'll be a waste of money and effort from your girlfriend and she'll be disappointed because its a surprise to you.
Tell you the truth, even though I everytime shoot you like a mother fucking phua cheebye, I can understand it.
But did it ever occur to you that how disappointed we are ? We do not meet up Jeffrey so often, its like the 1st time for so many years and its his big day.
A trip to Genting over the weekend is something which you can do it almost every weekend if its well planned. But the wedding dinner of a happy couple only happens once in a lifetime.
Imagine how much effort he has put into contacting us and asking us to attend the wedding. We may not be very once to him but he put in the effort to invite us and arranged us in a table to sit together.
Its a happy occasion and day to him and he hoped that the people he invited will attend but you disappointed us badly.
You may say that I'm a not understanding phua chee bye thats always picking on you.
Seriously its fine with me. I'm not alwats picking on you but I juz want you to understand and know the disappointment I had in you.
Oh well, everything takes time to happen. If you can't realise it in due time. There's nothing much I can do also. There's only so much an individual can do.
Time have passed so quickly. In a few months time and I'm gonna be 30 years old already.
Just the past saturday I attended Jeffrey and his wife's wedding dinner. Finally our Mr ITE beng is also getting married.
Feel so happy for him.
I'm quite surprised that he invited us as we didn't really keep in touch with each other ever since we graduated from ITE which is like in the year 2003.
Its been 10 years already.
I still remember last year I bumped into him at Shanghai Dolly and we still truing to recognise each other. I guess its because of that time so he invited us to his wedding dinner.
Hahaha !
All of us attended except one. I wun say who but all of us know who it is. Sometimes I really wonder our friendship to this particular friend, how much does it mean to this friend of us.
Whenever he has a girlfriend, we would be treated as invisible or non important. He'll only look for us when his girlfriend is not free which means when he doesn't have to accompany her.
I'm not saying that his girlfriend is not a nice person or something. I find his girlfriend is quite a nice person even though I only met her once.
I mean a few of my frenz also behaved in the same way after they had a girlfriend but his one is really abit over.
When we ask him something about he and his girlfriend, he'll juz plainly ignore us as if we're transparent.
This is god damm irritating seriously. If you dun feel like answering at least say you dun wanna answer, dun fucking cheebye plain ignore ok. How would you feel if you're in our shoes.
And last week, he juz last minute inform everybody that he's not attending Jeffrey's wedding dinner.
What the fuck rite !
And the reason he had given is because his girlfriend bought tickets to Genting and his share is included.
Seriously, the importance of going Genting with your 3mths old girlfriend compared to the wedding dinner of a 12yrs old friendship buddy, anybody can gauge which is heavier.
Yes, you will say that if you do not go Genting with your girlfriend, it'll be a waste of money and effort from your girlfriend and she'll be disappointed because its a surprise to you.
Tell you the truth, even though I everytime shoot you like a mother fucking phua cheebye, I can understand it.
But did it ever occur to you that how disappointed we are ? We do not meet up Jeffrey so often, its like the 1st time for so many years and its his big day.
A trip to Genting over the weekend is something which you can do it almost every weekend if its well planned. But the wedding dinner of a happy couple only happens once in a lifetime.
Imagine how much effort he has put into contacting us and asking us to attend the wedding. We may not be very once to him but he put in the effort to invite us and arranged us in a table to sit together.
Its a happy occasion and day to him and he hoped that the people he invited will attend but you disappointed us badly.
You may say that I'm a not understanding phua chee bye thats always picking on you.
Seriously its fine with me. I'm not alwats picking on you but I juz want you to understand and know the disappointment I had in you.
Oh well, everything takes time to happen. If you can't realise it in due time. There's nothing much I can do also. There's only so much an individual can do.
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
26/02/2013
Its been more den a week since I've wrote here.
Nothing much and nothing interesting have happened in these few days.
Chinese New Year have offically ended and everybody is back to work, including my mom who had a very long holiday and rest.
This year's Chinese New Year is juz like the same as every year. I find Chinese New Year in Singapore is nothing but a few days of public holidays for people who are tired from work and wants to take a break from work.
For people like me who works in the retail line, the Chinese New Year period is the only time that the shop will be closed half day from Chinese New Year Eve to the 4th day of the Chinese New Year.
This is the only period which we can really have a break from our usual work schedule, BUT it doesn't mean we really get to have our break.
We're all scheduled to go visiting to the relative's house or the relatives will come over to our place, which in turn may be even more tiring den working usual.
Like for myself, I need to go for visiting which in the end I have to wake up earlier den my usual working time and going home later den the usual time I knock off from work.
It may seems like its a period of holiday which people think no work equals to rest. But honestly most of us will be more tired den usual.
Apart from the usual practice of house visiting and having lunch or dinner gathering, there's no more the sprcial festive mood of Chinese New Year.
As all these festive seasons from the olden times to the current societies we are staying in, its juz days that vendors can get to sell things at a higher price and people will not make noise.
Why would people choose to buy Bak Kwa at $50 per kg during the Chinese New Year period and not buy at $30 per kg during the non Chinese New Year period.
Its all about marketing.
During Chinese New Year eat Bak Kwa and non Chinese New Year period eat Bak Kwa got taste different meh ? Eat Bak Kwa muz see mood one meh ? This is all about marketing but ppl during this period do not complain coz its the festive season.
I think in the next generation, they will not even know why they are celebrating the Chinese New Year.
Nothing much and nothing interesting have happened in these few days.
Chinese New Year have offically ended and everybody is back to work, including my mom who had a very long holiday and rest.
This year's Chinese New Year is juz like the same as every year. I find Chinese New Year in Singapore is nothing but a few days of public holidays for people who are tired from work and wants to take a break from work.
For people like me who works in the retail line, the Chinese New Year period is the only time that the shop will be closed half day from Chinese New Year Eve to the 4th day of the Chinese New Year.
This is the only period which we can really have a break from our usual work schedule, BUT it doesn't mean we really get to have our break.
We're all scheduled to go visiting to the relative's house or the relatives will come over to our place, which in turn may be even more tiring den working usual.
Like for myself, I need to go for visiting which in the end I have to wake up earlier den my usual working time and going home later den the usual time I knock off from work.
It may seems like its a period of holiday which people think no work equals to rest. But honestly most of us will be more tired den usual.
Apart from the usual practice of house visiting and having lunch or dinner gathering, there's no more the sprcial festive mood of Chinese New Year.
As all these festive seasons from the olden times to the current societies we are staying in, its juz days that vendors can get to sell things at a higher price and people will not make noise.
Why would people choose to buy Bak Kwa at $50 per kg during the Chinese New Year period and not buy at $30 per kg during the non Chinese New Year period.
Its all about marketing.
During Chinese New Year eat Bak Kwa and non Chinese New Year period eat Bak Kwa got taste different meh ? Eat Bak Kwa muz see mood one meh ? This is all about marketing but ppl during this period do not complain coz its the festive season.
I think in the next generation, they will not even know why they are celebrating the Chinese New Year.
Friday, February 15, 2013
Disappointment
Hi guys, I'm back again. Firstly wishing everybody Happy Chinese New Year and Happy Valentine's Day !
Nowadays I feel so disappointed in so many things and I'm always ranting about it.
I'm disappointed in a few of my frenz. I have this group of frenz that I've known them during my ITE days which is 2001 which means that we've been frenz for like 12 years already.
Previously we always have meetups like having dinner together and watching soccer matches together. But chances of all these activities have been slowly getting lesser and lesser.
I do not blame them because now all of us are adults already. The responsibilty in us is different from last time. All of us have to go work and some of our working hours are different so we have to accomodate each other, plus some of them have to accompany their wife or girlfriend.
But I find all these are getting lesser already. Initially we're a group of 7 always coming out until few years ago one of them had a girlfriend and he like totally ignore us. He juz carry on his own life with his girlfriend without the need of company from us.
And now it became the group of 6. And during one outing, 2 of them had a conflict and it became the group of 5. After that, another one also found a girlfriend plus he's also busy with his shift work and this, it brings down to the group remaining of 4.
The 4 of us still keep in contact and have frequent outings even though one of them is attached also but as his girlfriend is perfectly fine with us so she always join us in our outing.
And now the problem comes when one more of us have a girlfriend. He is always accompanying her out and forget about us. He'll only look for us when his girlfriend is not free so he got the free time.
But when he's with us, he's constantly on his phone messaging his girlfriend. Watching a soccer match of 90mins but he's on the phone for 80mins. If this is the way den what for u ask us out but u treat us like transparent plastic.
And when I talk about this issue, you'll juz get angry and say I'll shoot whatever u say or do.
I admit I'm always shooting you and attacking you, but do you realise why I do that ? Chinese saying 无风不起浪, if there's nothing for me to shoot you den how am I gonna attack you ? If I'm not with reason why are you unable to defend urself ?
Anyway I'm always being the bad guy that always shoot people around, I'm already used to it. It doesn't matter whether you guys care or not.
12 Years of friendship, so weak and brittle. Easily destroyed by small issues.
W H A T E V E R !
Nowadays I feel so disappointed in so many things and I'm always ranting about it.
I'm disappointed in a few of my frenz. I have this group of frenz that I've known them during my ITE days which is 2001 which means that we've been frenz for like 12 years already.
Previously we always have meetups like having dinner together and watching soccer matches together. But chances of all these activities have been slowly getting lesser and lesser.
I do not blame them because now all of us are adults already. The responsibilty in us is different from last time. All of us have to go work and some of our working hours are different so we have to accomodate each other, plus some of them have to accompany their wife or girlfriend.
But I find all these are getting lesser already. Initially we're a group of 7 always coming out until few years ago one of them had a girlfriend and he like totally ignore us. He juz carry on his own life with his girlfriend without the need of company from us.
And now it became the group of 6. And during one outing, 2 of them had a conflict and it became the group of 5. After that, another one also found a girlfriend plus he's also busy with his shift work and this, it brings down to the group remaining of 4.
The 4 of us still keep in contact and have frequent outings even though one of them is attached also but as his girlfriend is perfectly fine with us so she always join us in our outing.
And now the problem comes when one more of us have a girlfriend. He is always accompanying her out and forget about us. He'll only look for us when his girlfriend is not free so he got the free time.
But when he's with us, he's constantly on his phone messaging his girlfriend. Watching a soccer match of 90mins but he's on the phone for 80mins. If this is the way den what for u ask us out but u treat us like transparent plastic.
And when I talk about this issue, you'll juz get angry and say I'll shoot whatever u say or do.
I admit I'm always shooting you and attacking you, but do you realise why I do that ? Chinese saying 无风不起浪, if there's nothing for me to shoot you den how am I gonna attack you ? If I'm not with reason why are you unable to defend urself ?
Anyway I'm always being the bad guy that always shoot people around, I'm already used to it. It doesn't matter whether you guys care or not.
12 Years of friendship, so weak and brittle. Easily destroyed by small issues.
W H A T E V E R !
Saturday, February 09, 2013
Why I Oppose
Along with many other Singaporeans, I oppose the White Paper.
I oppose the White Paper as a young Singaporean, who has no intention of giving up my citizenship or moving on to greener pastures because I want to stay and fix what is wrong with our country, so that we can be proud to pass on a better, more sustainable Singapore to future generations.
A Singapore that people can feel secure enough to call home, and feel confident to raise their children in.
Where the past, present and future can complement each other, rather than being a burden to economic progress.
A society that lives in harmony, rather than tense and overcrowded conditions.
Not the Singapore Inc. that has been aggressively forced down our throats the past few years – a Singapore which is in danger of becoming a transient state where people from all over, come, make their fortunes, and leave. A Singapore that has become a playground for the rich and the people who can afford it. A Singapore where the middle class is increasingly drowned out because they do not have the social clout or sufficient representatives in parliament to voice their concerns.
The paragraph above espouses rhetoric, a word that has become a filthy taboo that PAP MPs are attacking the opposition MPs for. Well, unless you’re talking about one of their own citing personal anecdotes like rich foreigners buying three properties, or trees that cannot grow properly if they are constantly uprooted. It’s okay when a PAP MP spouts rhetoric. It is ill-prepared of an opposition MP to do so. It is fluffy of them to do so.
This mudslinging in parliament, primarily over how the Worker’s Party has failed to provide a strong alternative, and the inherent smugness of the PAP is worrying.
Uneven playing field
Of course, it is easy for the PAP to slam the opposition on the quality of proposals that have been presented, whether these opposition parties have a presence in parliament or not. Apart from the length of time that the PAP has had in developing this paper, they also have an entire machinery of civil servants at their disposal churning out data which, apart from the topline information available on Singstats, is not available to the public.
With a Freedom of Information Act that is sorely lacking in this country, and with this comparative advantage that only elected officials in white have more access to such information than any other party, it is natural that they should have more facts at their fingertips to debunk any alternative proposal that the opposition puts up.
Is this fair?
No. It puts any opposition party elected into parliament in a tough spot. It’s akin to allowing competitors in only if they have a significant handicap. This attitude is selfish and counter-productive for policymaking in Singapore because it does not allow alternative proposals to be developed to the best of their ability, and for diverse proposals to flourish, which could help raise points or insights that may not have been earlier considered.
The question here is: Have sufficient diverse viewpoints been considered in the making of this White Paper? There may have been several focus groups conducted locally in constituencies, but is this sample size already skewed as their feedback may be more aligned with the ruling party? Have the views of the 39.9% who voted for the opposition in the last General Elections been considered too?
Overconfidence in predicting future
The PAP has presented a White Paper that looks too perfect to be true. It’s comprehensive, with clear graphs and data to show exactly what the consequences will be if we do not adhere to their policy recommendations, and a nicely predicted, positive outcome if the White Paper were to be implemented in full.
This over-confidence and certainty in prescribing future outcomes should not be comforting to people. Responsible leaders need to acknowledge that the world that we live in is a tumultuous one, and past data or historical events are not indicative of future trends.
For years the PAP has been telling us to do X, and it will result in Y. It all sounds very simple and linear, but we now know that they have been less than perfect in predicting outcomes. It’s nobody’s fault – after all, the world is changing at a speed that is impossible for us to predict trends as clearly as before. So, there is no need to act like we have all the answers. Even the PAP does not have all the answers, and they should not pretend to do so. Money can buy data, but it cannot predict the future.
What policymakers and leaders do need to establish, however, are the values by which they govern this country. The values we use to lead this country will cascade down into the mindsets of policymakers, and it will influence the way that they make decisions.
Just to be clear – Heart, Home, and Hope are not values. They should be the desired outcome of values.
The values of the White Paper currently appear to be – Money. GDP Growth. Corporations. Even the carrots dangled in front of us to start families are all centred around money and tangible rewards.
But is this the kind of Singapore we want? Have we really looked hard enough at cultivating an optimal balance between heartware and hardware? Or are we still fixated on an economic model that allows the rich to get richer while the poor get poorer?
Instead of continuing to paint a false picture of a comfort zone that we can take refuge in with the implementation of this White Paper, perhaps it is time for the state to stop mollycoddling its voters with the false promise of successful policies that can only happen with minimal confrontation of differences in ideas and opinions, because it allows the government to move ahead and make decisions that are right for its people.
The absence of soft culture
Singapore now needs time to grow into its own. Early on in the days of independence we’ve been whisked out of birthing pains out of necessity and quickly built into a first world nation in a short span of time. We are thankful to the old guard of the PAP for setting up this stage for us to flourish.
However, we will never truly mature as a society and as a country if we are not allowed the breathing space to grow. To grow our culture, to grow the things that matter, rather than to be caught up in a race of GDP growth numbers. The policies over the past decades have created an erosion of our social roots, widespread resentment, and a loss of who we are as Singaporeans. We have been taught to prioritise money-making practicality over what it means to have a solid culture. That is why we will find it difficult to have truly flourishing soft culture unless we can look beyond quantifying every scheme into a commercially viable one.
Soft culture sounds like a lofty proposition, but the truth is that developed economies around the world now are now being judged on their soft power influences and how they export their culture to the rest of the world. Soft culture also plays a part in determining how attractive a country is to the rest of the world. This is one area that we need to start focusing on in order to build a sustainable economy that goes beyond pure numbers and low-wage foreign labour.
Reality check: What if a prescriptive government is actually more detrimental than beneficial for its people? So apart from constantly doling out more monetary rewards and physical incentives to encourage a growth in TFR and sustain the population, perhaps it is also time for the government to take a step back and allow Singaporeans to find themselves and grow into their own. We need the space to organically build ourselves a strong Singaporean core before we should even talk about bringing more people in without diluting our identity and sense of belonging.
Speak up and be heard
The White Paper was developed with well-meaning intentions, but with deep-seated assumptions and a lack of openness to alternative ideas, it is difficult for many Singaporeans to endorse this White Paper as a reflection of the future that they want to see for this country. For many, the prospect of building a country primarily to serve economic needs and turn into a transient place for other seeking to use Singapore as a stepping stone is indeed a bitter pill to swallow.
To be clear, we are not by nature fear mongers, or doomsayers. We are all concerned because we’ve seen the destructive effects of similar policies over the past years, and with more of the same, the country is headed in a direction that understandably makes many of us uncomfortable, not just for ourselves, but for our children and the generations ahead of us.
The motion for the White Paper has already been passed in parliament, but I hope that we will not stop here and accept this silently. This is an opportune time to make our voices heard, and we can do so either by pushing for a National Referendum to demonstrate a representative view of what Singaporeans want for our future. We can and should also continue writing our thoughts on social platforms to make our opinions and ideals heard by as many of us as possible.
This is the time for us to stand up and make a difference for the beliefs that we hold dear to us. I hope we will not stand by the sidelines any longer.
Nicole Seah is a member of an opposition party in Singapore and was the youngest female candidate in the 2011 General Elections. She runs a community service project in the constituency of Marine Parade GRC, providing a support platform for children from lower income or dysfunctional family backgrounds. Nicole has also spoken at several conferences locally and internationally on issues pertaining to Singapore politics, social and youth issues in Asia and social media.
Sunday, February 03, 2013
03-02-2013
Once again I'm here blogging again.
Technology now is so advanced that I can blog on the go, blog anytime I want with 3G or 4G connection. So much different from last time when we need to find a free wireless spot den can use internet on our phones.
The past few days have been quiet at Funan centre, sales have not been good. The amount of human traffic walking around is juz pure pathetic man. Carpark always full but the building always empty, so strange isn't it.
I've been playing quite alot of Street Fighter X Tekken lately because of the new 2013 patch which fixed tons of stuffs from gameplay to character nerfs and buffs.
I'm getting the hang of how the game works as I didn't really put in much time in the previous version if not I would need alot of time to adapt to the ton of changes to the game.
Its getting slightly more fun den the previous version due to the increase in damage and the adjustment for frequent timeouts.
But overall I still find Super Street Fighter 4 Arcade Edition 2012 and The King Of Fighters XIII way more fun den this gane.
This game requires you to use alot of the game's main mechanic, The Tag Combo. It does require skill also to play this game but it emphasize more on tagging and air juggling.
I myself prefer games more footsie baded like Super Street Fighter 4 or more fast paced like KOF.
But well, I have someone to play with me time to time so I'll stick to this game at tge moment.
Technology now is so advanced that I can blog on the go, blog anytime I want with 3G or 4G connection. So much different from last time when we need to find a free wireless spot den can use internet on our phones.
The past few days have been quiet at Funan centre, sales have not been good. The amount of human traffic walking around is juz pure pathetic man. Carpark always full but the building always empty, so strange isn't it.
I've been playing quite alot of Street Fighter X Tekken lately because of the new 2013 patch which fixed tons of stuffs from gameplay to character nerfs and buffs.
I'm getting the hang of how the game works as I didn't really put in much time in the previous version if not I would need alot of time to adapt to the ton of changes to the game.
Its getting slightly more fun den the previous version due to the increase in damage and the adjustment for frequent timeouts.
But overall I still find Super Street Fighter 4 Arcade Edition 2012 and The King Of Fighters XIII way more fun den this gane.
This game requires you to use alot of the game's main mechanic, The Tag Combo. It does require skill also to play this game but it emphasize more on tagging and air juggling.
I myself prefer games more footsie baded like Super Street Fighter 4 or more fast paced like KOF.
But well, I have someone to play with me time to time so I'll stick to this game at tge moment.
Friday, February 01, 2013
01-02-2013
Time flies so fast, its already the 2nd month of the year 2013.
Nothing interesting happened in Jan.
Me and Shawn have finally booked our tickets to Seoul. Really is finally man, after talking about it for a few months. We finally decided on the date. Its our first time going on a trip overseas together. It should be a fun trip since both of us are fun people. Hahaha.
Wen's period of working with us has finally ended yesterday. Last time I dun really know him much, only chitchatting much in the whatsapp group. Actually he is quite a fun person although quite kaobei at times but still a nice guy. A million thanks for the help given to us for the past 3 months so that our workload is being lighten during the festive season.
Another happy news is that Jac is pregnant again ! Congratz to then for getting their 2nd kid. Finally Gareth have a younger sibling for him to play with next time. Its about time for him so know how to be a good big brother.
My good buddy Nicholas also celebrated his birthday with us. I hope that he will get his wish granted in the next few months and Karen will get pregnant soon, so that he wun have to stress so much thinking of why he doesn't have a baby.
Oh well, thats all for now. Updating blog on a bus on the way home is not that easy. Till next time
Nothing interesting happened in Jan.
Me and Shawn have finally booked our tickets to Seoul. Really is finally man, after talking about it for a few months. We finally decided on the date. Its our first time going on a trip overseas together. It should be a fun trip since both of us are fun people. Hahaha.
Wen's period of working with us has finally ended yesterday. Last time I dun really know him much, only chitchatting much in the whatsapp group. Actually he is quite a fun person although quite kaobei at times but still a nice guy. A million thanks for the help given to us for the past 3 months so that our workload is being lighten during the festive season.
Another happy news is that Jac is pregnant again ! Congratz to then for getting their 2nd kid. Finally Gareth have a younger sibling for him to play with next time. Its about time for him so know how to be a good big brother.
My good buddy Nicholas also celebrated his birthday with us. I hope that he will get his wish granted in the next few months and Karen will get pregnant soon, so that he wun have to stress so much thinking of why he doesn't have a baby.
Oh well, thats all for now. Updating blog on a bus on the way home is not that easy. Till next time
Tuesday, January 29, 2013
A Life Too Taxing
Here I am complaining about life.
The By Election for Punggol East has ended and the Worker's Party have won and taken the area.
Usually I'm not very interested in all these because I'm staying in an area that I do not have to vote for anything. But this time round the rally from the Workers Party really caught my attention.
People like LTK, DanGoh, DesLim talk about things happening around us and what the gahmen have done for us which does make alot of sense.
And from watching all these rallys, I had alot of thoughts in my mind.
I'm gonna hit 30yrs old this year and I do have to pay attention and know whats happening in my country as anything that is happening will definitely affect my life here either directly or indirectly.
The high rising prices of flats is crazy. A 3-rm flat now here can easily cost us 360k to 400k depending on the popularity of the area.
We're talking about $300 thousand here for a 3-room flat. For an average working person like me who earns like $2000 before the deduction of CPF will have to pay like 16yrs for this house if I splash all my salary in.
Normally housing loans here will allow u to drag for 30 years. Which means if I get to buy a house now I will have to be in debt for the next 30 years here. And I would be 60 yrs old by then.
And the gahmen here encourages us to give birth to babies to add the local population to the country.
Easier said than done.
To them of course its not a problem. Their monthly salary most of them us equivalent to my one year salary. Of course its easy for them to say.
For us the average working salary in this society, how are we gonna afford all these ! We would have to slog our lives for it. Paying for housing loans, paying for medical bills for the wife and kid and the daily expenses.
As chinese always say, 多一张嘴，多一份开销.
But when the gahmen suggest all these and when we dun do it. We get all the blame and say our country is not populated enough, so they need to bring in foreign talents.
Oh wow, this action us definitely not helping us in anyway we need. We're already staying in a competitive country which the prices of everything is going ip except our salary. And now here you guys here are bringing in people from other places to snatch from us.
Please teach us how do you want us to survive in our own country and not complaining about all the things you guys have done.
Yes, you guys said that all these things done is for the future of the country but seriously, I doubt I would be able to survive till the day arrive.
Thanks for everything, I love my country, but the country has become a country that is handled by people who doesn't know the needs and wants of the people who wants to support the country they deserve.
The By Election for Punggol East has ended and the Worker's Party have won and taken the area.
Usually I'm not very interested in all these because I'm staying in an area that I do not have to vote for anything. But this time round the rally from the Workers Party really caught my attention.
People like LTK, DanGoh, DesLim talk about things happening around us and what the gahmen have done for us which does make alot of sense.
And from watching all these rallys, I had alot of thoughts in my mind.
I'm gonna hit 30yrs old this year and I do have to pay attention and know whats happening in my country as anything that is happening will definitely affect my life here either directly or indirectly.
The high rising prices of flats is crazy. A 3-rm flat now here can easily cost us 360k to 400k depending on the popularity of the area.
We're talking about $300 thousand here for a 3-room flat. For an average working person like me who earns like $2000 before the deduction of CPF will have to pay like 16yrs for this house if I splash all my salary in.
Normally housing loans here will allow u to drag for 30 years. Which means if I get to buy a house now I will have to be in debt for the next 30 years here. And I would be 60 yrs old by then.
And the gahmen here encourages us to give birth to babies to add the local population to the country.
Easier said than done.
To them of course its not a problem. Their monthly salary most of them us equivalent to my one year salary. Of course its easy for them to say.
For us the average working salary in this society, how are we gonna afford all these ! We would have to slog our lives for it. Paying for housing loans, paying for medical bills for the wife and kid and the daily expenses.
As chinese always say, 多一张嘴，多一份开销.
But when the gahmen suggest all these and when we dun do it. We get all the blame and say our country is not populated enough, so they need to bring in foreign talents.
Oh wow, this action us definitely not helping us in anyway we need. We're already staying in a competitive country which the prices of everything is going ip except our salary. And now here you guys here are bringing in people from other places to snatch from us.
Please teach us how do you want us to survive in our own country and not complaining about all the things you guys have done.
Yes, you guys said that all these things done is for the future of the country but seriously, I doubt I would be able to survive till the day arrive.
Thanks for everything, I love my country, but the country has become a country that is handled by people who doesn't know the needs and wants of the people who wants to support the country they deserve.
Sunday, January 27, 2013
Welcome to 2013
Its been a long time since I've updated this blog of mine.
I'm like so lazy in doing everything nowadays. I dun even feel like playing SRWOG on my PS3 which is a game that I've waited for years for it to be released on the PS3.
The year 2012 is just like a normal year for me, nothing special and spectular happened.
The significant things that happened in 2012 is having 2 groups of friends that entertained me for the large part of the boring year of 2012.
One of the group is the meat eating group which consists of Nicholas, Matthew, Galvin, Fei and Winston. We always have tons of bullshit to talk about. Food, tous, girls, boobs and gossip. We also combined together to expose some god damm mother fucking fraud. Its a fun group to be in, but guys, let us all have a more healthier life please.
The other group are the bunch of fun guys thats I've known in this few years that I've worked in Gamescore. All the gamers that behaves like normal human beings. The grouo of CKM, Shawn, Simon, Kelvin, Thimo and Big Ben.
Sometimes I'm so amazed that how humans with common topics can blend so well together. This group of ppl basically talks about everything under the sun.
Games, movies, music, cars, girls, gahmen, food. U name it, we talk about it.
But no matter how good all of them are, there's always bound to have some conflicts between everybody. Sometimes its because all of us are so comfortable with each other that we do not control the limits of our jokes towards each other.
One of us may find it ok, but maybe the other will find it offending after repeated jokes. Everybody's temper limit is different, but I do believe friends towards each other should be forgiving.
Good friends are hard to come by, not to say a group of friends that have the same interest in most of the things.
Its already the mid january of 2013. Wishing everybody a great nice smooth year ahead !
I'm like so lazy in doing everything nowadays. I dun even feel like playing SRWOG on my PS3 which is a game that I've waited for years for it to be released on the PS3.
The year 2012 is just like a normal year for me, nothing special and spectular happened.
The significant things that happened in 2012 is having 2 groups of friends that entertained me for the large part of the boring year of 2012.
One of the group is the meat eating group which consists of Nicholas, Matthew, Galvin, Fei and Winston. We always have tons of bullshit to talk about. Food, tous, girls, boobs and gossip. We also combined together to expose some god damm mother fucking fraud. Its a fun group to be in, but guys, let us all have a more healthier life please.
The other group are the bunch of fun guys thats I've known in this few years that I've worked in Gamescore. All the gamers that behaves like normal human beings. The grouo of CKM, Shawn, Simon, Kelvin, Thimo and Big Ben.
Sometimes I'm so amazed that how humans with common topics can blend so well together. This group of ppl basically talks about everything under the sun.
Games, movies, music, cars, girls, gahmen, food. U name it, we talk about it.
But no matter how good all of them are, there's always bound to have some conflicts between everybody. Sometimes its because all of us are so comfortable with each other that we do not control the limits of our jokes towards each other.
One of us may find it ok, but maybe the other will find it offending after repeated jokes. Everybody's temper limit is different, but I do believe friends towards each other should be forgiving.
Good friends are hard to come by, not to say a group of friends that have the same interest in most of the things.
Its already the mid january of 2013. Wishing everybody a great nice smooth year ahead !
Thursday, January 17, 2013
一個人想著一個人 - 曾沛慈
你離開的那一天
天空有點灰
見不著你最愛的藍天
少了一個人鬥嘴
多些朋友的安慰
一切 都不是錯覺
來不及道聲感謝
故事已結尾
太多事情來不及後悔
我還有太多心願
太多夢沒有實現
桌上還留著過去的照片
我一個人的失眠 一個人的空間
一個人的想念 兩個人的畫面
是誰的眼淚是誰的憔悴
灑滿地的心碎
我一個人的冒險 一個人的座位
一個人想著一個人
眼角的淚這不是錯覺
那些年 那幾天 那一夜 都恍如昨天
這些年 這幾天 這一夜 你讓我失眠
天空有點灰
見不著你最愛的藍天
少了一個人鬥嘴
多些朋友的安慰
一切 都不是錯覺
來不及道聲感謝
故事已結尾
太多事情來不及後悔
我還有太多心願
太多夢沒有實現
桌上還留著過去的照片
我一個人的失眠 一個人的空間
一個人的想念 兩個人的畫面
是誰的眼淚是誰的憔悴
灑滿地的心碎
我一個人的冒險 一個人的座位
一個人想著一個人
眼角的淚這不是錯覺
那些年 那幾天 那一夜 都恍如昨天
這些年 這幾天 這一夜 你讓我失眠
Wednesday, January 02, 2013
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