It has been a week and I've finally hit 30 !
Nothing to be happy about and nothing special to celebrate too, birthday is just like any other day. Just a day that you'll get alot of birthday wishes from friends which you only get them once a year.
As we celebrate our birthday everytime, we grow one year older which means another year with more responsibilities coz we grow older and of course one year nearer to step into the coffin. Hahahaha.
For the majority of my friends that is 30 or older, most of them would have their own family already or some of them would already have gotten married just that they have no kids yet, but there's still a minority group that's just attached and some still single just like me.
At 30, I'm currently leading just the life of the free and single. I do not have to report where I am and what I'm doing. I can do whatever I want now like going out till the wee hours, watching TV and drama serials till morning and of course sleep the whole day away during my offdays.
At 30 years old, I do not really have any big achievements in my life. Most probably my only achievement is getting my driving license thats all. Sucked at studies and not earning any big bucks. I'm not saying I'm earning peanuts, the salary I'm drawing now is actually quite not bad as I'm just an ITE grad. An ITE cert alone can't get us anywhere.
Most of my friends thinks I'm kinda happy go lucky person as I always show the "Ahhhh, dun care lah " attitude towards most of the things but most of the time I do think about alot of things. Most of my friends and the elderly always ask the questions like , " Old liao leh, when wanna find a girlfriend ? " or " So what you gonna do for the remaining of your life ? "
All these are the common questions your friends and family will ask when you hit a certain age and now I am at that age, but I always try to avoid answering all these questions.
Why ?
Like I've always answered to my friends, having an ill body with poor health is a burden to everybody. It's a financial burden as we are dependant to medication and medical appts which cost a bomb in this country in this world. It's a physical burden when we are unable to do what we want and becomes dependant to the people around us who have to constantly take care of us whenever we needed help. We are also mental burden as we do not know when we will just go off anyday which will affect the lives of our loved ones.
With all these thoughts going on and on in my mind, might as well I do nothing and just lead on my life. The life of freedom and minimise the burdens I will give to the people around me. We may bring sadness to the people around us when we're gone but life still have to go on for the rest of them. We only play a part in their lives for a short period, in the end it's their lives that is the most important thing.
Why make people suffer when we already is suffering. I always believe that if I just take the blame if anything happens and it settles the problem, I'll just do it. I'm not saying I'm a very noble person but I'm the kind of person that just doesn't want any troublesome stuffs which keeps going on and on. If I alone taking the blame which can solve everything, I dun see why I shouldn't do it.
Haiz . . . . . . . . . . . . . Life, so complicated and troublesome.
Enough ranting for now, shall continue again soon
Sunday, September 08, 2013
Monday, August 26, 2013
26/08/2013
It's already 26th August liao, just a few more days and I'm hitting 30 years old.
Time flies huh, in a blink of an eye and I'm hitting 30.
Most people will take 30 as maybe 1/3 of their life gone and for my case maybe 1/2 or already 60% or 70%
Why ? Health has been getting bad nowadays.
Blood sugar is like always on the higher end nowadays. Eat alot also high, eat little bit also high. I seriously duno what to do to maintain the blood sugar on the lower side liao.
Everyday wake up here pain there pain. Few days ago shoulder pain, den back pain, den neck pain. It's like becoming some old man whole body also pain.
As I'm gonna reach 30, I realise I've not actually achieve anything yet. A person who is not good in academics which means I only have one Higher NITEC cert which seriously brings me nowhere.
I guess my only achievement is getting my driving license like 5 years ago.
I have plenty of plans for myself but it's all disrupted by either my laziness or due to alot of other reasons which in the end means not enough time.
I wanted to continue with my japanese lessons or retake my japanese lessons but my working hours and schedule is kinda hard for me to go for lessons as sometimes I do have to change my offdays which will lead to unable to attend classes. It happened the previous time which I missed 6 lessons and in the end I gave up and stop going for it.
I seriously feel I need another holiday. The short trip to Korea was fun but it's not enough. A short 4 day trip is abit too rush which makes me feel even more tired den not having a holiday. Perhaps staying at home sleeping for the whole day does wonders.
In the end I've started to rant again.
I shall stop now as I'm too lazy to type and I wanna watch TV liao.
Till next time . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Blood sugar is like always on the higher end nowadays. Eat alot also high, eat little bit also high. I seriously duno what to do to maintain the blood sugar on the lower side liao.
Everyday wake up here pain there pain. Few days ago shoulder pain, den back pain, den neck pain. It's like becoming some old man whole body also pain.
As I'm gonna reach 30, I realise I've not actually achieve anything yet. A person who is not good in academics which means I only have one Higher NITEC cert which seriously brings me nowhere.
I guess my only achievement is getting my driving license like 5 years ago.
I have plenty of plans for myself but it's all disrupted by either my laziness or due to alot of other reasons which in the end means not enough time.
I wanted to continue with my japanese lessons or retake my japanese lessons but my working hours and schedule is kinda hard for me to go for lessons as sometimes I do have to change my offdays which will lead to unable to attend classes. It happened the previous time which I missed 6 lessons and in the end I gave up and stop going for it.
I seriously feel I need another holiday. The short trip to Korea was fun but it's not enough. A short 4 day trip is abit too rush which makes me feel even more tired den not having a holiday. Perhaps staying at home sleeping for the whole day does wonders.
In the end I've started to rant again.
I shall stop now as I'm too lazy to type and I wanna watch TV liao.
Till next time . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Sunday, August 11, 2013
A CHEATED SINGAPOREAN’S RESPONSE TO PM LEE’S NATIONAL DAY SPEECH
Is Lee Hsien Loong’s 2013 speech a joke? Did he even do his due diligence when he made those fancy claims promising Singaporeans the utopia in his speech?
1) “We have cleared the queue for HDB flats, stabilised BTO prices and tightened up on property speculation and excessive borrowing.”
In the latest BTO exercise, BTO flats remain oversubscribed by as much as 4.5 times in popular areas like Hougang (your much hated Opposition Ward). According to the HDB [Source], BTO applicant rejection rate is as high as 31%. So what do you mean by you have “cleared the queue”? BTO prices have also increased steadily over 2010 to 2012 [Source], what do you mean by “stabilized? Stabilizing linear increase instead of an exponential increase? Also, when you said you tightened up on property speculation, did you actually mean you are making it harder of young couples to secure a housing loan and increased the number of non-NS serving new citizens to take advantage of the BTO system?
In the latest BTO exercise, BTO flats remain oversubscribed by as much as 4.5 times in popular areas like Hougang (your much hated Opposition Ward). According to the HDB [Source], BTO applicant rejection rate is as high as 31%. So what do you mean by you have “cleared the queue”? BTO prices have also increased steadily over 2010 to 2012 [Source], what do you mean by “stabilized? Stabilizing linear increase instead of an exponential increase? Also, when you said you tightened up on property speculation, did you actually mean you are making it harder of young couples to secure a housing loan and increased the number of non-NS serving new citizens to take advantage of the BTO system?
2) “We have added more buses and increased the number of bus routes.”
800 buses, or 20%, of the exiting fleet has been added, with 550 of these buses paid for by a hefty $1 Billion Singaporean taxes [Source] while SBS and SMRT chalks tens of millions consistent profits every year, recession or not [Source]. Money matters aside, Singapore population swelled more than 35% to today’s 5.45 million under your 10 year premiership, how is your 20% increased capacity going to help? And you are selling me the 6.9 million story? Could you have the decency and humility to be present at Raffles MRT station at 7pm to see the ground for yourself?
800 buses, or 20%, of the exiting fleet has been added, with 550 of these buses paid for by a hefty $1 Billion Singaporean taxes [Source] while SBS and SMRT chalks tens of millions consistent profits every year, recession or not [Source]. Money matters aside, Singapore population swelled more than 35% to today’s 5.45 million under your 10 year premiership, how is your 20% increased capacity going to help? And you are selling me the 6.9 million story? Could you have the decency and humility to be present at Raffles MRT station at 7pm to see the ground for yourself?
3) “We need foreign workers to serve our economy and Singaporeans’ needs, and immigrants to make up for our shortfall of babies.”
Are you importing a foreign adult to make up for the shortfall of local babies? If you are, you are only worsening the aging population. The good part about this is that you have not given up on low fertility rate like your father did. The bad part is that you are doing it wrong and Singaporeans are bearing the brunt of your incompetency. It is not only congestion and overcrowding we are facing, what about diminishing employment opportunities, inflation of domestic prices, education places [Source]? In your drive for immigration, you have somewhat become the unofficial Prime Minister of foreigners in Singapore. You failed to address the gross disadvantages of National Service, the distinctions between PRs and citizens, the recognition that a Singaporean poor is valued more important than a foreign millionaire, the protectionism and privileges Singaporeans deserve for sacrificing to the political platform and accolades what you and your father enjoyed in our name over the decades. Your pro-foreigner policies have been logically met with much protests, but bear in mind, a better Singapore has always, and is made, only possible by citizens, not economic migrants.
Are you importing a foreign adult to make up for the shortfall of local babies? If you are, you are only worsening the aging population. The good part about this is that you have not given up on low fertility rate like your father did. The bad part is that you are doing it wrong and Singaporeans are bearing the brunt of your incompetency. It is not only congestion and overcrowding we are facing, what about diminishing employment opportunities, inflation of domestic prices, education places [Source]? In your drive for immigration, you have somewhat become the unofficial Prime Minister of foreigners in Singapore. You failed to address the gross disadvantages of National Service, the distinctions between PRs and citizens, the recognition that a Singaporean poor is valued more important than a foreign millionaire, the protectionism and privileges Singaporeans deserve for sacrificing to the political platform and accolades what you and your father enjoyed in our name over the decades. Your pro-foreigner policies have been logically met with much protests, but bear in mind, a better Singapore has always, and is made, only possible by citizens, not economic migrants.
4) “We need to strengthen this spirit of togetherness.”
For a start, please leave foreigners out of this “togetherness”. You know there is a political standoff among Singaporeans, then why do you deepen this divide by controlling the media and challenging every allegation, engaging in defamation lawsuits and letters of demands? It is no less hypocritical hearing that coming from a mental patient whose pathological history is stating otherwise. Perhaps I’ve been wrong, your idea of “togetherness” has no place for misfits like me. Your “togetherness” may prefer Singaporeans like me to emigrate, while a foreigner from any 3rd world country who can better appreciate you can be imported to take my place. You may also prefer to have Singaporean elderly working on a $4/hr paycheck than to have them taking a few zeros off your billion dollar projects like Garden by the Bay and the largest man-made river in Bishan. You may like new media control in addition to your worsening mainstream media credibility. And if what happened over the past few years is your definition of “togetherness”, kindly leave Singaporeans diverse and vocal.
For a start, please leave foreigners out of this “togetherness”. You know there is a political standoff among Singaporeans, then why do you deepen this divide by controlling the media and challenging every allegation, engaging in defamation lawsuits and letters of demands? It is no less hypocritical hearing that coming from a mental patient whose pathological history is stating otherwise. Perhaps I’ve been wrong, your idea of “togetherness” has no place for misfits like me. Your “togetherness” may prefer Singaporeans like me to emigrate, while a foreigner from any 3rd world country who can better appreciate you can be imported to take my place. You may also prefer to have Singaporean elderly working on a $4/hr paycheck than to have them taking a few zeros off your billion dollar projects like Garden by the Bay and the largest man-made river in Bishan. You may like new media control in addition to your worsening mainstream media credibility. And if what happened over the past few years is your definition of “togetherness”, kindly leave Singaporeans diverse and vocal.
5) “We will tackle the cost of living, for example healthcare costs, especially for the elderly.”
I cringed when I hear that because the last time you said you want to help the poor, you raised GST by 2% and then your Ministers started drawing million dollar salaries. We didn’t know the poor you were referring to were the poor Ministers who may have their standard of living affected. Could you please be specific this time? Is $8 too much for Khaw Boon Wan’s bypass surgery? Does he need more help? If healthcare costs is an issue, shouldn’t you be reviewing the feasibility of the Medisave system instead of making undisclosed drawdowns from our reserves?
I cringed when I hear that because the last time you said you want to help the poor, you raised GST by 2% and then your Ministers started drawing million dollar salaries. We didn’t know the poor you were referring to were the poor Ministers who may have their standard of living affected. Could you please be specific this time? Is $8 too much for Khaw Boon Wan’s bypass surgery? Does he need more help? If healthcare costs is an issue, shouldn’t you be reviewing the feasibility of the Medisave system instead of making undisclosed drawdowns from our reserves?
I am glad you cleverly gave resale flat prices, COE prices, purchasing power and breakdowns of public transport a miss. These are hot topics that will haunt you in 3 year’s time.
P.S. You may want to watch your awkward hand gestures flying around. You are not Obama, keep it simple stupid.
Thursday, August 08, 2013
08-08-2013
Long time no update liao !
Its been like 2 to 3 weeks since my last update, nothing much have happened.
First thing, congratulations of Phillip ! Finally he has promoted to the status of father !
So much happiness around him but its definitely a new beginning of his life. More responsibility and a more tired life awaits him. Now its not only himself already but now everything is for the family. Family have to be the first in his mind now. No more happy drinking session every night liao. Everyday is just going home and taking care of the son and wife.
Nowadays I'm quite busy with my gaming as I've just bought Super Robot Wars Operation Extend on my PS Vita.
The game is quite the different style from the usual 2D SRW as there's no grid on the map and you dun start with full EN or SP. It regenerates after every turn and every attack.
Needs abit of time to get used to it but I do find it quite fun actually.
Busy with gaming and dramas nowadays that I've been having alot of late nights nowadays.
Feeling quite tired nowadays I think due to all these things but all these is what I like to do.
Nothing much to write this timr, till next time.
Saturday, July 20, 2013
20-07-2013
Finally a week have passed, the hype and excitment have died down. Feeling back to normal.
You muz be wondering what happened last weekend right.
Last weekend was Evo2013, the biggest fighting game tournament of the year. Its like the World Cup of fighting games for the Fighting Game Community.
And this event is even more meaningful for the Singapore Fighting Game Community.
We had a champion this time round !
Our local golden boy, Ho Kun Xian, know as DM.MCZ Xian, went against all odds and got the champion for the main event.
Super Street Fighter 4 Arcade Edition 2012.
Sponsered by local company, Team Desperation Move, Xian have done his sponser proud and his country proud.
Having Gen as his main, a mid low tier character, there were alot of nad matchup for this character as the character is slow and having limited moves.
He performed just like a champion in the making, not losing to the likes of the koreans, amerians, europeans and of course the japanese.
He did the impossible of winning Sako in the semi-finals and Tokido in the Winners Finals. Defeating 2 of the fighting game gods of japan which he previously had alot of trouble in defeating them.
And its was Tokido again at the grand finals after Tokido had defeated Korea's Infiltration in the Losers Finals.
It was exciting, it was breath taking. It was the grand finals of Xian vs Tokido, Gen vs Akuma. Top tier vs mid tier.
And Xian came out on top ! Defeating Tokido 3-0 in the grand finals, getting the champion for the main event !
It was the first time a Singaporean won a main event.
The history in the making for Singapore, finally being recognised by the rest of the world.
Finally there'a a name of DM.MCZ Xian from Singapore in the top player list together with the big names of Daigo, Mago, Tokido, Sako, Kazunoko, Fuudo from Japan and Justin Wong, PR Balrog, ChrisG, Ricky Ortiz from USA and Ryan Hart, Louffy from Europe.
All thanks to Xian that shown the world we are not a force to be reckon with !
Thursday, July 11, 2013
11-07-2013
Its been like a month since I've updated my blog.
Things have not been going well. My diabetic condition have not been doing well and I do not know what have been causing it.
My blood sugar have been constantly staying at the high range nowadays. Even a day of balanced meal without much starch or sugar still makes it go high.
I seriously duno what is happening.
Izzit because I've been eating much more den what I usually should have ?
Izzit because I'm always going out drinking with my friends ?
Izzit because of the constant late nights that I'm having ?
Or izzit because of the lack of exercise that I'm having ?
I believe actually all these things does a part in what is happening.
I'm trying to do something that I can, maybe not putting in enough effort.
I've been trying to eat lesser den usual and trying to tahan the hunger that hits me at night. Normal ppl will not know how the insulin works in our body. It really makes us alot more hungrier den usual.
I'm trying to do some exercise like walking home from my workplace. It may not be a very far distance but I do believe that it will help abit.
For my working hours its really quite difficult to spare out time to exercise. Working from 11-8 means I have to leave home latest by 1020am in the morning and by the time I reach home and have dinner, its like already 10pm. How am I able to go like jogging or anything.
And for the late nights. As what I've said earlier, after I had my dinner its like already 10pm liao. I dun really have much time to do things that I want for myself, like watching tv, playing games and chatting online with my frenz.
But oh well, much complaining is not much use. I'm not forced to have this kinda life. I chose to lead a life like this.
Be it whether I wanted it lydat or not, I have to live with it.
Ranting stops, logging off.
Till next time
Saturday, June 08, 2013
08-06-2013
Seems like a very long time since I've updated.
Nothing much to update also.
Last week we had a secondary school gathering as its the birthday of Yingjun's daughter.
Time flies huh
Yingjun is already married and his daughter is already one years old.
We're like in the drama of " Reply 1997 ", having a meetup like duno how long ago.
The last time I met up with them is Huifen's wedding which is like 2010 ? Coz I remember its the day of the World Cup Finals.
It has been that long.
Sometimes we still have some casual chats on the phone as whatsapp messanger is able to let you create groups and everybody can chat inside the group.
Sitting down together on a round table with food and drinks, the 说当年 session is definitely bound to happen.
One look and all of us have changed and grown up already. All of us hitting 30 this year.
So much things have happened all these years since we know each other when we're 13 years old. Some we know since 13, some 14 and some 15.
Talk about the past is always so full of fun because when we think back of all the things we have done together, we find it so funny.
Its even more funny for the group of Yingjun, Jiajie, Shun, Sam and me as we've know each other since Secondary 1 and in the same class since secondary 3. The 5 of us even failed our secondary 3 and repeated together !
So awesome rite ! Hahaha !
The times we play truant together, hanging around after school, doing stupid things like getting into fights together with people from other schools, going to neighbourhood school and disturb the girls, and of course studying together.
Friends build bonds lydat. Friends strengthen bonds lydat through the things we do together even if its something wrong. Building trust towards one another. This is what I call friendship.
Its something that you do not have to keep saying it to the whole world and letting everybody know that you treat him or them as a friend.
Friends always stick together during times. Even quarrels strengthen the friendship as we open up our hearts towards each other because we voice out all the happiness and unhappiness we feel towards each other.
I like this group of frenz even though I do not see them everyday or talk to them everyday but I know they will always treat me as a friend.
They gave me friendship when we were together. They helped me during the hard times of my life. They have fun with me when I'm bored.
All these things made me feel comfortable with them and I hope everything can last for 10 more years.
Its not easy to find friends that the friendship can last 10years, 20years or more.
Everybody please do cherish your friends and not just to be friends with people that you can make use of. If you only make friends because of making use of them, you do not know what is friendship.
Tuesday, May 07, 2013
07-05-2013
Life have been boring nowadays.
Nothing special happened.
The same old daily routine.
Hmmmm, maybe I'll talk about my trip to Korea.
As most of my frenz know, I went on a 5 days trip to Korea with Yangxian and Shawn.
A funny group of trio most my frenz say as Yangxian and Shawn are not frenz and both of the agreed to go together.
Its was a virgin trip to Seoul for the 3 of us and also the first time together as I've never been to overseas with Shawn before but a few times with Yangxian.
Before the trip I kept thinking whether the 3 of us will blend well together when we go korea as the characteristics of the 3 of us doesn't seem to be able to blend well.
Shawn belongs to the want to plan what to do and where to go type of person as he doesn't want to waste time especially when we are overseas.
Yangxian belongs to the kind that does everything very last minute. Like buying the air tickets in the last minute, coming to the airport in the last minute. And he doesn't really like to help as I've experienced it a few times from the few previous trips I had with him.
As for me, I actually belong to the very lazy type. I belong more to the type that follows the flow. Like u say u wanna go there I will just follow if the place you wanna go doesn't really interest me but I always try not to spoil the mood.
The first day was nothing interesting as we did not really plan what to do and where to go as we do not know what time we will reach the airport and we do not know the travelling time required to reach our staying place from the airport.
And so after a one hour plus of travelling time, we have reached our destination.
Brownsweet Residence, the place we will call our home for the next 4 and a half days.
The service apartment is actually quite costly as its like $240 per day but the facilities of the service apartment is quite good.
The service apartment is just a short 5 minutes walk from ChungJeongNo train station which is considered near.
Its quite easy to find the place because the building is quite tall and it has the wirds Brownsweet on it so actually its quite hard to miss.
On the first floor of the building, there's like a coffeeshop similiar to Starbucks just that its a smaller version of it.
There's also a small convinence store that we can get our daily needs like snscks, food and drinks when we need to.
There's also a few restaurants located. There's a japanese restaurant and a korean restaurant but due to time constraint we did not try any of them.
And now about the apartment.
The apartment is like a smaller version of a 3 room flat.
It consists of a living room which has a mini kitchen connected to it. 2 Bedrooms which one of them consists of a queen size bed and the other one is 2 regular size beds.
The bad thing about the rooms is that it doesn't come with any wardrobe but they compensate by giving you a makeup room which comes with a wardrobe which is beside the toilet.
The apartment is equipped with 3 aircons. One main in the living room and one in each of the bedrooms. Normally every night we'll turn on the main aircon in the living room and sleep with our doors open so that we do not have to turn on the aircons in the bedroom.
The toilet of the apartment is quite small compared to the regular hotel toilets as it doesn't have a bathtub, just a normal shower with either hot and cold water.
The toilet bowl is the japanese type that is able to heat up during cold weather and it has the thing that will spray ur butt after shitting which is shiok.
The bad thing about the design is that the washing basin is not in the toilet. So to wash ur hands or wash ur face you'll have to go out of the toilet but the basin is just beside the door of the toilet.
The kitchen is very well equipped with utensils for you to cook instant noodled and it comes with bowls, chopsticks everything. Its also comes with knifes and chopping board so you do not have to worry on missing out anything.
Overall I'm very pleased with the service apartment even though its like slightly more expensive den the regular hotels but I'm very happy staying there.
Highly recommended to friends if they are going in a group of 4 so that the $250 can be divided into 4 instead of 3.
Nothing special happened.
The same old daily routine.
Hmmmm, maybe I'll talk about my trip to Korea.
As most of my frenz know, I went on a 5 days trip to Korea with Yangxian and Shawn.
A funny group of trio most my frenz say as Yangxian and Shawn are not frenz and both of the agreed to go together.
Its was a virgin trip to Seoul for the 3 of us and also the first time together as I've never been to overseas with Shawn before but a few times with Yangxian.
Before the trip I kept thinking whether the 3 of us will blend well together when we go korea as the characteristics of the 3 of us doesn't seem to be able to blend well.
Shawn belongs to the want to plan what to do and where to go type of person as he doesn't want to waste time especially when we are overseas.
Yangxian belongs to the kind that does everything very last minute. Like buying the air tickets in the last minute, coming to the airport in the last minute. And he doesn't really like to help as I've experienced it a few times from the few previous trips I had with him.
As for me, I actually belong to the very lazy type. I belong more to the type that follows the flow. Like u say u wanna go there I will just follow if the place you wanna go doesn't really interest me but I always try not to spoil the mood.
The first day was nothing interesting as we did not really plan what to do and where to go as we do not know what time we will reach the airport and we do not know the travelling time required to reach our staying place from the airport.
And so after a one hour plus of travelling time, we have reached our destination.
Brownsweet Residence, the place we will call our home for the next 4 and a half days.
The service apartment is actually quite costly as its like $240 per day but the facilities of the service apartment is quite good.
The service apartment is just a short 5 minutes walk from ChungJeongNo train station which is considered near.
Its quite easy to find the place because the building is quite tall and it has the wirds Brownsweet on it so actually its quite hard to miss.
On the first floor of the building, there's like a coffeeshop similiar to Starbucks just that its a smaller version of it.
There's also a small convinence store that we can get our daily needs like snscks, food and drinks when we need to.
There's also a few restaurants located. There's a japanese restaurant and a korean restaurant but due to time constraint we did not try any of them.
And now about the apartment.
The apartment is like a smaller version of a 3 room flat.
It consists of a living room which has a mini kitchen connected to it. 2 Bedrooms which one of them consists of a queen size bed and the other one is 2 regular size beds.
The bad thing about the rooms is that it doesn't come with any wardrobe but they compensate by giving you a makeup room which comes with a wardrobe which is beside the toilet.
The apartment is equipped with 3 aircons. One main in the living room and one in each of the bedrooms. Normally every night we'll turn on the main aircon in the living room and sleep with our doors open so that we do not have to turn on the aircons in the bedroom.
The toilet of the apartment is quite small compared to the regular hotel toilets as it doesn't have a bathtub, just a normal shower with either hot and cold water.
The toilet bowl is the japanese type that is able to heat up during cold weather and it has the thing that will spray ur butt after shitting which is shiok.
The bad thing about the design is that the washing basin is not in the toilet. So to wash ur hands or wash ur face you'll have to go out of the toilet but the basin is just beside the door of the toilet.
The kitchen is very well equipped with utensils for you to cook instant noodled and it comes with bowls, chopsticks everything. Its also comes with knifes and chopping board so you do not have to worry on missing out anything.
Overall I'm very pleased with the service apartment even though its like slightly more expensive den the regular hotels but I'm very happy staying there.
Highly recommended to friends if they are going in a group of 4 so that the $250 can be divided into 4 instead of 3.
Sunday, April 28, 2013
Saturday, April 20, 2013
19-04-2013
Finally we had a short meetup session with the ITE kakis. Having a dinner together and a short drinking session.
Its been more den a month since we have meetup as the last meetup is during one of our fren's wedding dinner.
A meetup session between friends os always nice as we tend to update each other on what have happened during the period that we did not meet up.
For me, I told my frenz about my South Korea trip, one of them talked about his plan for a special occasion, one of them talked about work and one of them tslked about his girlfriend.
And here the conversation officially started.
As all of us only either saw his girlfriend once or didn't even see her before. So we're very concerned about their progress.
Having being together for a few months already, everything seems to be going smoothly for them. Having meals together frequently, working at the same place and going overseas together for a few times.
But all these is what we've been thinking as our friend will normally ignore us when he's in a relationship, so actuallynwe're quite used to it already.
But after having the Q&A session with him. We found out that actually he is having quite alot of pressure from this relationship. Physically, mentally and financially.
Having an age gap of 6 or 7 years old between them, both of them tend to have different thinking and different opinions in things they see and they do. And when the girl's position at work is higher den my friend, which doesn't improve to the situation.
My friend told us that his girlfriend hope that he can continue his part-time degree so that it will help towarda hom climbing to a higher position at his workplace.
Of course its good if my fren gets his degree. It will improve his payslip and the stability of his job. But all these requires time and money.
Studying part time in Singapore is definitely not something cheap and it'll easily require 3 to 5 years to complete it if everything goes smooth. If it takes 3 years, my fren will be 33 and if it takes 5 yrs, my fren will be 35. What if my fren cannot make it, the time and money poured in will be down the drain.
My friend owns a car and so naturally he'll send his girlfriend back home and den go home. This may sound normal but actually its not on the way for my friend. Their workplace is at Queenstown. My friend stays Clementi and his girlfroend stays near the Geylang area.
Its actually like travelling double for my fren. The extra petrol required and the ERP needed to pay daily accumulates up to quite an amount.
And most of the time when they go for meals, my friend is the one paying. This is something common as most of the time the guy will pay for the meal.
But as a girlfriend, do also try to help and understand mah. My friend position at the workplace is lower den u so obviously his salary is definitely lesser den u.
If before you guys got together you can travel by public transport, I dun see why u can't do it now. You may say that my friend insist in sending you home but YOU also can insist in rejecting his insist mah.
If you guys want to be together, there muz be mutual understanding between both of you. My fren can save up the money for the future of the both of you.
And since you know he's earning less den you so what you can do is contribute sometimes for meals together or something. Being the boyfriend doesn't mean he has to pay for everything.
Don't give the excuse of he insisted or guys should pay for it. So when happy both happy but when suffer only one suffer ?
Be understanding abit. This world is everything for themself. You may be young, you still have alot of chances in everything but my friend is already hitting 30 years old. If you're serious about this relationship, please understand and di not place your eyes so high and have expectations as high as where the skies are.
Nothing much for me to say and do also. The decision lies in the both of them. At the end of the day I'm juz a person that happened to walk into the path of their lives which can be erased easily from the memories of everyone.
Its been more den a month since we have meetup as the last meetup is during one of our fren's wedding dinner.
A meetup session between friends os always nice as we tend to update each other on what have happened during the period that we did not meet up.
For me, I told my frenz about my South Korea trip, one of them talked about his plan for a special occasion, one of them talked about work and one of them tslked about his girlfriend.
And here the conversation officially started.
As all of us only either saw his girlfriend once or didn't even see her before. So we're very concerned about their progress.
Having being together for a few months already, everything seems to be going smoothly for them. Having meals together frequently, working at the same place and going overseas together for a few times.
But all these is what we've been thinking as our friend will normally ignore us when he's in a relationship, so actuallynwe're quite used to it already.
But after having the Q&A session with him. We found out that actually he is having quite alot of pressure from this relationship. Physically, mentally and financially.
Having an age gap of 6 or 7 years old between them, both of them tend to have different thinking and different opinions in things they see and they do. And when the girl's position at work is higher den my friend, which doesn't improve to the situation.
My friend told us that his girlfriend hope that he can continue his part-time degree so that it will help towarda hom climbing to a higher position at his workplace.
Of course its good if my fren gets his degree. It will improve his payslip and the stability of his job. But all these requires time and money.
Studying part time in Singapore is definitely not something cheap and it'll easily require 3 to 5 years to complete it if everything goes smooth. If it takes 3 years, my fren will be 33 and if it takes 5 yrs, my fren will be 35. What if my fren cannot make it, the time and money poured in will be down the drain.
My friend owns a car and so naturally he'll send his girlfriend back home and den go home. This may sound normal but actually its not on the way for my friend. Their workplace is at Queenstown. My friend stays Clementi and his girlfroend stays near the Geylang area.
Its actually like travelling double for my fren. The extra petrol required and the ERP needed to pay daily accumulates up to quite an amount.
And most of the time when they go for meals, my friend is the one paying. This is something common as most of the time the guy will pay for the meal.
But as a girlfriend, do also try to help and understand mah. My friend position at the workplace is lower den u so obviously his salary is definitely lesser den u.
If before you guys got together you can travel by public transport, I dun see why u can't do it now. You may say that my friend insist in sending you home but YOU also can insist in rejecting his insist mah.
If you guys want to be together, there muz be mutual understanding between both of you. My fren can save up the money for the future of the both of you.
And since you know he's earning less den you so what you can do is contribute sometimes for meals together or something. Being the boyfriend doesn't mean he has to pay for everything.
Don't give the excuse of he insisted or guys should pay for it. So when happy both happy but when suffer only one suffer ?
Be understanding abit. This world is everything for themself. You may be young, you still have alot of chances in everything but my friend is already hitting 30 years old. If you're serious about this relationship, please understand and di not place your eyes so high and have expectations as high as where the skies are.
Nothing much for me to say and do also. The decision lies in the both of them. At the end of the day I'm juz a person that happened to walk into the path of their lives which can be erased easily from the memories of everyone.
Monday, April 15, 2013
15-04-2013
Here I am writing a blogpost again. Nowadays I'll use my mobile to write my blog coz its so easy now as any mobile device can access to the net.
Something depressing have happened lately.
One of my fren his son is having the full month celebration. A pity I have to woek so I did not attend the celebration
According to my frenz that attended, my fren is full of smile and happiness during the party. Everybody was congratulating him and he replied thanks.
But the happiness shown on the face may not be genuine. You'll never know deep down what is he thinking.
After the celebration and everything, my fren went to work. As he works for a catering company, his working hours us quite irregular as food catering business does not have regular timing.
Monday arrives and he's not back home. Very common, happened alot of times. He felt tired after collecting all the catering stuff and he'll juz sleep in the car.
During night time, we sensed something strange, he hasn't call back home and inform anything. The wife, which is also our fren, is worried. She ask us to keep a lookout for him.
None of us is able to find or contact him. All started to get worried whether did anything hapen to him. Uncontactable in anyway. One of us went to his workplace and found out that he did not went to work.
We suggest they make a police report as we duno what have happened. Everyone is worried like hell, trying to find his whereabouts.
But to say the truth, there's nothing we can do except for waiting for news. We do not have the resources and time as all of us are working adults. So we should juz trust the police and let them do the job.
Comes wednesday morning. Yes, its wednesday already. The wife told us he's back home. All of us felt relieved but the next thing is a shocker. He wants to leave the wife.
What The Fuck !
Their son juz celebrated full month and their house is soon to be ready to move in. And now my fren suddenly says he wants to leave the family.
I duno whether izzit he wants a divorce or something but from what we know, he isn't the kind of person that would have an affair outside.
We are all puzzled by his actions. But at this moment, anything that we say will not make a difference in his actions. If the son and the flat is not able to make him change his decision, we do not know what can make him change his decision.
Life, marriage, family. All seems so strong but just a small thing will break it.
Something depressing have happened lately.
One of my fren his son is having the full month celebration. A pity I have to woek so I did not attend the celebration
According to my frenz that attended, my fren is full of smile and happiness during the party. Everybody was congratulating him and he replied thanks.
But the happiness shown on the face may not be genuine. You'll never know deep down what is he thinking.
After the celebration and everything, my fren went to work. As he works for a catering company, his working hours us quite irregular as food catering business does not have regular timing.
Monday arrives and he's not back home. Very common, happened alot of times. He felt tired after collecting all the catering stuff and he'll juz sleep in the car.
During night time, we sensed something strange, he hasn't call back home and inform anything. The wife, which is also our fren, is worried. She ask us to keep a lookout for him.
None of us is able to find or contact him. All started to get worried whether did anything hapen to him. Uncontactable in anyway. One of us went to his workplace and found out that he did not went to work.
We suggest they make a police report as we duno what have happened. Everyone is worried like hell, trying to find his whereabouts.
But to say the truth, there's nothing we can do except for waiting for news. We do not have the resources and time as all of us are working adults. So we should juz trust the police and let them do the job.
Comes wednesday morning. Yes, its wednesday already. The wife told us he's back home. All of us felt relieved but the next thing is a shocker. He wants to leave the wife.
What The Fuck !
Their son juz celebrated full month and their house is soon to be ready to move in. And now my fren suddenly says he wants to leave the family.
I duno whether izzit he wants a divorce or something but from what we know, he isn't the kind of person that would have an affair outside.
We are all puzzled by his actions. But at this moment, anything that we say will not make a difference in his actions. If the son and the flat is not able to make him change his decision, we do not know what can make him change his decision.
Life, marriage, family. All seems so strong but just a small thing will break it.
Monday, April 08, 2013
Saturday, April 06, 2013
06/04/2013
Its been a few weeks since I've updated. Kinda busy nowadays.
Well, I'm back safe and sound from South Korea !
Finally I've been to South Korea, the land of Girls Generation, T-ara, Apink and BoA !
Its the first time I've gone overseas with frenz and not with my bosses and colleagues as the previous trips are all with them.
South Korea is actually the last country in my wanna visit list as I've been to Hongkong, Taipei and Japan.
All these while to me, travelling seems like something which is near impossible for me to do due to my illness which I have to bring more things with me den a normal healthy person.
Because of these reasons, I find travelling a very turn off thing coz it will cause inconvinence to the people whom I'm travelling with.
But I'm very glad that all the people I've travelled with are very nice and understanding, always asking me is everything ok during the trip.
When I was young, I only get to know about other countries through watching variety shows, watching dramas and of course through the internet.
I never have the thought of travelling overseas when young due to all the travelling expenses like Airfare, Lodging and of course spending at that country. All these can easily add up to $2000 or more depends on the country.
$2000 may not seem to be a big amount to alot of people but $2000 may also seem to be a big amount to people also.
Like for myself, I do not really spend alot daily on things like gadgets or toys but I do spend quite alot on my meals which can easily hit $20 a day.
One thing that turns me off about travelling is that in my case, I have a savings account that I'll save $300 every month so that I could have some cash when I really do need it urgently.
Like for example, this trip to South Korea. The airfare is $850 and lodging adds up to around $350 which in total is $1200, and this doesn't include the money that I've spend there.
All these will add up to near $2000 like what I've said earlier. I will need like 7 months to be able to save up to this amount. And for a 5 day holiday, this amount of money in my bank is gone.
For me it requires 7 months to save up this amount, but to some other people who are earning lesser den me, they will need an even longer period to save up.
But I firmly believe that everyone should have their chance to travel to a country that they really wanted.
When I was small, I always wanted to go Japan as I'm attracted to the games, animes and mangas produced from the country.
When I hit my teens, I wanted to visit Hongkong due to the idolising of Andy Lau and Aaron Kwok.
When I grew even older, Taipei became the country I wanted to go due to all the Taiwan variety shows and dramas ehich always showed good food of Taiwan.
It may sound like a luxury that not everybody can afford to have, but travelling and looking at the real thing us definitely better den only looking at them through the tv and magazines.
The next post I'll be back with my experience on South Korea !
Well, I'm back safe and sound from South Korea !
Finally I've been to South Korea, the land of Girls Generation, T-ara, Apink and BoA !
Its the first time I've gone overseas with frenz and not with my bosses and colleagues as the previous trips are all with them.
South Korea is actually the last country in my wanna visit list as I've been to Hongkong, Taipei and Japan.
All these while to me, travelling seems like something which is near impossible for me to do due to my illness which I have to bring more things with me den a normal healthy person.
Because of these reasons, I find travelling a very turn off thing coz it will cause inconvinence to the people whom I'm travelling with.
But I'm very glad that all the people I've travelled with are very nice and understanding, always asking me is everything ok during the trip.
When I was young, I only get to know about other countries through watching variety shows, watching dramas and of course through the internet.
I never have the thought of travelling overseas when young due to all the travelling expenses like Airfare, Lodging and of course spending at that country. All these can easily add up to $2000 or more depends on the country.
$2000 may not seem to be a big amount to alot of people but $2000 may also seem to be a big amount to people also.
Like for myself, I do not really spend alot daily on things like gadgets or toys but I do spend quite alot on my meals which can easily hit $20 a day.
One thing that turns me off about travelling is that in my case, I have a savings account that I'll save $300 every month so that I could have some cash when I really do need it urgently.
Like for example, this trip to South Korea. The airfare is $850 and lodging adds up to around $350 which in total is $1200, and this doesn't include the money that I've spend there.
All these will add up to near $2000 like what I've said earlier. I will need like 7 months to be able to save up to this amount. And for a 5 day holiday, this amount of money in my bank is gone.
For me it requires 7 months to save up this amount, but to some other people who are earning lesser den me, they will need an even longer period to save up.
But I firmly believe that everyone should have their chance to travel to a country that they really wanted.
When I was small, I always wanted to go Japan as I'm attracted to the games, animes and mangas produced from the country.
When I hit my teens, I wanted to visit Hongkong due to the idolising of Andy Lau and Aaron Kwok.
When I grew even older, Taipei became the country I wanted to go due to all the Taiwan variety shows and dramas ehich always showed good food of Taiwan.
It may sound like a luxury that not everybody can afford to have, but travelling and looking at the real thing us definitely better den only looking at them through the tv and magazines.
The next post I'll be back with my experience on South Korea !
Thursday, March 21, 2013
21/03/2013
Finally ! Today is the 21st already !
Just one more week today and I'll be in Korea !
Finally the trip is coming so soon. That time when we bought the air tix during january, we still keep saying still long lah, end of march.
And now its coming next week.
We have not plan where to go and what to do there. Its a free and easy trip.
We do have a few places we wanna go but we have not plan like when to go where. But we're planning to go from far to near.
The temperature there is from 3 - 15 degree so at least a windbreaker should be needed but I duno whether is winter wear required or not coz I've never experienced this kinda weather before.
I'm looking forward to the things I can eat but actually I'm not a big fan of korea food so I hope I'll be satisfied with the things I get to eat there.
This is the first time I'm going overseas with my frenz as the past few times I've only went overseas with my towkays and colleagues. Wonder how's the experience like.
Yup, back to work now !
Just one more week today and I'll be in Korea !
Finally the trip is coming so soon. That time when we bought the air tix during january, we still keep saying still long lah, end of march.
And now its coming next week.
We have not plan where to go and what to do there. Its a free and easy trip.
We do have a few places we wanna go but we have not plan like when to go where. But we're planning to go from far to near.
The temperature there is from 3 - 15 degree so at least a windbreaker should be needed but I duno whether is winter wear required or not coz I've never experienced this kinda weather before.
I'm looking forward to the things I can eat but actually I'm not a big fan of korea food so I hope I'll be satisfied with the things I get to eat there.
This is the first time I'm going overseas with my frenz as the past few times I've only went overseas with my towkays and colleagues. Wonder how's the experience like.
Yup, back to work now !
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
Tuesday, March 12, 2013
12/03/2013
Finally our Sam & Steph have been promoted to parents !
They got married in the year 2010 and finally their son have arrived in this world !
How time flies
The usual ITE group of the 6 of us, only me and norman are the only two that is not married nor attached at the moment.
The rest have all gotten married and have kids already, except for one of them who is married, have a son and divorced already.
Its been 11 years since we got to know each other already.
The 2nd year of my ITE life, the class which is more beng but definitely more fun and laughter.
In the blink of an eye, all of us reached adulthood, attended the school of social studies, the increasing of personal respobsibility.
At this point onwards, we have to andwer to everything we have done. No more acting pitiful and make our parents cover our shit.
For Sam & Steph, their new journey begins. How they will bring up their son is nothing short of difficulties, endurance and patience. A long and infinite journey.
All the best to them ! Frenz Forever !
They got married in the year 2010 and finally their son have arrived in this world !
How time flies
The usual ITE group of the 6 of us, only me and norman are the only two that is not married nor attached at the moment.
The rest have all gotten married and have kids already, except for one of them who is married, have a son and divorced already.
Its been 11 years since we got to know each other already.
The 2nd year of my ITE life, the class which is more beng but definitely more fun and laughter.
In the blink of an eye, all of us reached adulthood, attended the school of social studies, the increasing of personal respobsibility.
At this point onwards, we have to andwer to everything we have done. No more acting pitiful and make our parents cover our shit.
For Sam & Steph, their new journey begins. How they will bring up their son is nothing short of difficulties, endurance and patience. A long and infinite journey.
All the best to them ! Frenz Forever !
Tuesday, March 05, 2013
05/03/2013
Yo guys !
Time have passed so quickly. In a few months time and I'm gonna be 30 years old already.
Just the past saturday I attended Jeffrey and his wife's wedding dinner. Finally our Mr ITE beng is also getting married.
Feel so happy for him.
I'm quite surprised that he invited us as we didn't really keep in touch with each other ever since we graduated from ITE which is like in the year 2003.
Its been 10 years already.
I still remember last year I bumped into him at Shanghai Dolly and we still truing to recognise each other. I guess its because of that time so he invited us to his wedding dinner.
Hahaha !
All of us attended except one. I wun say who but all of us know who it is. Sometimes I really wonder our friendship to this particular friend, how much does it mean to this friend of us.
Whenever he has a girlfriend, we would be treated as invisible or non important. He'll only look for us when his girlfriend is not free which means when he doesn't have to accompany her.
I'm not saying that his girlfriend is not a nice person or something. I find his girlfriend is quite a nice person even though I only met her once.
I mean a few of my frenz also behaved in the same way after they had a girlfriend but his one is really abit over.
When we ask him something about he and his girlfriend, he'll juz plainly ignore us as if we're transparent.
This is god damm irritating seriously. If you dun feel like answering at least say you dun wanna answer, dun fucking cheebye plain ignore ok. How would you feel if you're in our shoes.
And last week, he juz last minute inform everybody that he's not attending Jeffrey's wedding dinner.
What the fuck rite !
And the reason he had given is because his girlfriend bought tickets to Genting and his share is included.
Seriously, the importance of going Genting with your 3mths old girlfriend compared to the wedding dinner of a 12yrs old friendship buddy, anybody can gauge which is heavier.
Yes, you will say that if you do not go Genting with your girlfriend, it'll be a waste of money and effort from your girlfriend and she'll be disappointed because its a surprise to you.
Tell you the truth, even though I everytime shoot you like a mother fucking phua cheebye, I can understand it.
But did it ever occur to you that how disappointed we are ? We do not meet up Jeffrey so often, its like the 1st time for so many years and its his big day.
A trip to Genting over the weekend is something which you can do it almost every weekend if its well planned. But the wedding dinner of a happy couple only happens once in a lifetime.
Imagine how much effort he has put into contacting us and asking us to attend the wedding. We may not be very once to him but he put in the effort to invite us and arranged us in a table to sit together.
Its a happy occasion and day to him and he hoped that the people he invited will attend but you disappointed us badly.
You may say that I'm a not understanding phua chee bye thats always picking on you.
Seriously its fine with me. I'm not alwats picking on you but I juz want you to understand and know the disappointment I had in you.
Oh well, everything takes time to happen. If you can't realise it in due time. There's nothing much I can do also. There's only so much an individual can do.
Time have passed so quickly. In a few months time and I'm gonna be 30 years old already.
Just the past saturday I attended Jeffrey and his wife's wedding dinner. Finally our Mr ITE beng is also getting married.
Feel so happy for him.
I'm quite surprised that he invited us as we didn't really keep in touch with each other ever since we graduated from ITE which is like in the year 2003.
Its been 10 years already.
I still remember last year I bumped into him at Shanghai Dolly and we still truing to recognise each other. I guess its because of that time so he invited us to his wedding dinner.
Hahaha !
All of us attended except one. I wun say who but all of us know who it is. Sometimes I really wonder our friendship to this particular friend, how much does it mean to this friend of us.
Whenever he has a girlfriend, we would be treated as invisible or non important. He'll only look for us when his girlfriend is not free which means when he doesn't have to accompany her.
I'm not saying that his girlfriend is not a nice person or something. I find his girlfriend is quite a nice person even though I only met her once.
I mean a few of my frenz also behaved in the same way after they had a girlfriend but his one is really abit over.
When we ask him something about he and his girlfriend, he'll juz plainly ignore us as if we're transparent.
This is god damm irritating seriously. If you dun feel like answering at least say you dun wanna answer, dun fucking cheebye plain ignore ok. How would you feel if you're in our shoes.
And last week, he juz last minute inform everybody that he's not attending Jeffrey's wedding dinner.
What the fuck rite !
And the reason he had given is because his girlfriend bought tickets to Genting and his share is included.
Seriously, the importance of going Genting with your 3mths old girlfriend compared to the wedding dinner of a 12yrs old friendship buddy, anybody can gauge which is heavier.
Yes, you will say that if you do not go Genting with your girlfriend, it'll be a waste of money and effort from your girlfriend and she'll be disappointed because its a surprise to you.
Tell you the truth, even though I everytime shoot you like a mother fucking phua cheebye, I can understand it.
But did it ever occur to you that how disappointed we are ? We do not meet up Jeffrey so often, its like the 1st time for so many years and its his big day.
A trip to Genting over the weekend is something which you can do it almost every weekend if its well planned. But the wedding dinner of a happy couple only happens once in a lifetime.
Imagine how much effort he has put into contacting us and asking us to attend the wedding. We may not be very once to him but he put in the effort to invite us and arranged us in a table to sit together.
Its a happy occasion and day to him and he hoped that the people he invited will attend but you disappointed us badly.
You may say that I'm a not understanding phua chee bye thats always picking on you.
Seriously its fine with me. I'm not alwats picking on you but I juz want you to understand and know the disappointment I had in you.
Oh well, everything takes time to happen. If you can't realise it in due time. There's nothing much I can do also. There's only so much an individual can do.
05/03/2013
Yo guys !
Time have passed so quickly. In a few months time and I'm gonna be 30 years old already.
Just the past saturday I attended Jeffrey and his wife's wedding dinner. Finally our Mr ITE beng is also getting married.
Feel so happy for him.
I'm quite surprised that he invited us as we didn't really keep in touch with each other ever since we graduated from ITE which is like in the year 2003.
Its been 10 years already.
I still remember last year I bumped into him at Shanghai Dolly and we still truing to recognise each other. I guess its because of that time so he invited us to his wedding dinner.
Hahaha !
All of us attended except one. I wun say who but all of us know who it is. Sometimes I really wonder our friendship to this particular friend, how much does it mean to this friend of us.
Whenever he has a girlfriend, we would be treated as invisible or non important. He'll only look for us when his girlfriend is not free which means when he doesn't have to accompany her.
I'm not saying that his girlfriend is not a nice person or something. I find his girlfriend is quite a nice person even though I only met her once.
I mean a few of my frenz also behaved in the same way after they had a girlfriend but his one is really abit over.
When we ask him something about he and his girlfriend, he'll juz plainly ignore us as if we're transparent.
This is god damm irritating seriously. If you dun feel like answering at least say you dun wanna answer, dun fucking cheebye plain ignore ok. How would you feel if you're in our shoes.
And last week, he juz last minute inform everybody that he's not attending Jeffrey's wedding dinner.
What the fuck rite !
And the reason he had given is because his girlfriend bought tickets to Genting and his share is included.
Seriously, the importance of going Genting with your 3mths old girlfriend compared to the wedding dinner of a 12yrs old friendship buddy, anybody can gauge which is heavier.
Yes, you will say that if you do not go Genting with your girlfriend, it'll be a waste of money and effort from your girlfriend and she'll be disappointed because its a surprise to you.
Tell you the truth, even though I everytime shoot you like a mother fucking phua cheebye, I can understand it.
But did it ever occur to you that how disappointed we are ? We do not meet up Jeffrey so often, its like the 1st time for so many years and its his big day.
A trip to Genting over the weekend is something which you can do it almost every weekend if its well planned. But the wedding dinner of a happy couple only happens once in a lifetime.
Imagine how much effort he has put into contacting us and asking us to attend the wedding. We may not be very once to him but he put in the effort to invite us and arranged us in a table to sit together.
Its a happy occasion and day to him and he hoped that the people he invited will attend but you disappointed us badly.
You may say that I'm a not understanding phua chee bye thats always picking on you.
Seriously its fine with me. I'm not alwats picking on you but I juz want you to understand and know the disappointment I had in you.
Oh well, everything takes time to happen. If you can't realise it in due time. There's nothing much I can do also. There's only so much an individual can do.
Time have passed so quickly. In a few months time and I'm gonna be 30 years old already.
Just the past saturday I attended Jeffrey and his wife's wedding dinner. Finally our Mr ITE beng is also getting married.
Feel so happy for him.
I'm quite surprised that he invited us as we didn't really keep in touch with each other ever since we graduated from ITE which is like in the year 2003.
Its been 10 years already.
I still remember last year I bumped into him at Shanghai Dolly and we still truing to recognise each other. I guess its because of that time so he invited us to his wedding dinner.
Hahaha !
All of us attended except one. I wun say who but all of us know who it is. Sometimes I really wonder our friendship to this particular friend, how much does it mean to this friend of us.
Whenever he has a girlfriend, we would be treated as invisible or non important. He'll only look for us when his girlfriend is not free which means when he doesn't have to accompany her.
I'm not saying that his girlfriend is not a nice person or something. I find his girlfriend is quite a nice person even though I only met her once.
I mean a few of my frenz also behaved in the same way after they had a girlfriend but his one is really abit over.
When we ask him something about he and his girlfriend, he'll juz plainly ignore us as if we're transparent.
This is god damm irritating seriously. If you dun feel like answering at least say you dun wanna answer, dun fucking cheebye plain ignore ok. How would you feel if you're in our shoes.
And last week, he juz last minute inform everybody that he's not attending Jeffrey's wedding dinner.
What the fuck rite !
And the reason he had given is because his girlfriend bought tickets to Genting and his share is included.
Seriously, the importance of going Genting with your 3mths old girlfriend compared to the wedding dinner of a 12yrs old friendship buddy, anybody can gauge which is heavier.
Yes, you will say that if you do not go Genting with your girlfriend, it'll be a waste of money and effort from your girlfriend and she'll be disappointed because its a surprise to you.
Tell you the truth, even though I everytime shoot you like a mother fucking phua cheebye, I can understand it.
But did it ever occur to you that how disappointed we are ? We do not meet up Jeffrey so often, its like the 1st time for so many years and its his big day.
A trip to Genting over the weekend is something which you can do it almost every weekend if its well planned. But the wedding dinner of a happy couple only happens once in a lifetime.
Imagine how much effort he has put into contacting us and asking us to attend the wedding. We may not be very once to him but he put in the effort to invite us and arranged us in a table to sit together.
Its a happy occasion and day to him and he hoped that the people he invited will attend but you disappointed us badly.
You may say that I'm a not understanding phua chee bye thats always picking on you.
Seriously its fine with me. I'm not alwats picking on you but I juz want you to understand and know the disappointment I had in you.
Oh well, everything takes time to happen. If you can't realise it in due time. There's nothing much I can do also. There's only so much an individual can do.
Tuesday, February 26, 2013
26/02/2013
Its been more den a week since I've wrote here.
Nothing much and nothing interesting have happened in these few days.
Chinese New Year have offically ended and everybody is back to work, including my mom who had a very long holiday and rest.
This year's Chinese New Year is juz like the same as every year. I find Chinese New Year in Singapore is nothing but a few days of public holidays for people who are tired from work and wants to take a break from work.
For people like me who works in the retail line, the Chinese New Year period is the only time that the shop will be closed half day from Chinese New Year Eve to the 4th day of the Chinese New Year.
This is the only period which we can really have a break from our usual work schedule, BUT it doesn't mean we really get to have our break.
We're all scheduled to go visiting to the relative's house or the relatives will come over to our place, which in turn may be even more tiring den working usual.
Like for myself, I need to go for visiting which in the end I have to wake up earlier den my usual working time and going home later den the usual time I knock off from work.
It may seems like its a period of holiday which people think no work equals to rest. But honestly most of us will be more tired den usual.
Apart from the usual practice of house visiting and having lunch or dinner gathering, there's no more the sprcial festive mood of Chinese New Year.
As all these festive seasons from the olden times to the current societies we are staying in, its juz days that vendors can get to sell things at a higher price and people will not make noise.
Why would people choose to buy Bak Kwa at $50 per kg during the Chinese New Year period and not buy at $30 per kg during the non Chinese New Year period.
Its all about marketing.
During Chinese New Year eat Bak Kwa and non Chinese New Year period eat Bak Kwa got taste different meh ? Eat Bak Kwa muz see mood one meh ? This is all about marketing but ppl during this period do not complain coz its the festive season.
I think in the next generation, they will not even know why they are celebrating the Chinese New Year.
Nothing much and nothing interesting have happened in these few days.
Chinese New Year have offically ended and everybody is back to work, including my mom who had a very long holiday and rest.
This year's Chinese New Year is juz like the same as every year. I find Chinese New Year in Singapore is nothing but a few days of public holidays for people who are tired from work and wants to take a break from work.
For people like me who works in the retail line, the Chinese New Year period is the only time that the shop will be closed half day from Chinese New Year Eve to the 4th day of the Chinese New Year.
This is the only period which we can really have a break from our usual work schedule, BUT it doesn't mean we really get to have our break.
We're all scheduled to go visiting to the relative's house or the relatives will come over to our place, which in turn may be even more tiring den working usual.
Like for myself, I need to go for visiting which in the end I have to wake up earlier den my usual working time and going home later den the usual time I knock off from work.
It may seems like its a period of holiday which people think no work equals to rest. But honestly most of us will be more tired den usual.
Apart from the usual practice of house visiting and having lunch or dinner gathering, there's no more the sprcial festive mood of Chinese New Year.
As all these festive seasons from the olden times to the current societies we are staying in, its juz days that vendors can get to sell things at a higher price and people will not make noise.
Why would people choose to buy Bak Kwa at $50 per kg during the Chinese New Year period and not buy at $30 per kg during the non Chinese New Year period.
Its all about marketing.
During Chinese New Year eat Bak Kwa and non Chinese New Year period eat Bak Kwa got taste different meh ? Eat Bak Kwa muz see mood one meh ? This is all about marketing but ppl during this period do not complain coz its the festive season.
I think in the next generation, they will not even know why they are celebrating the Chinese New Year.
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