Relationship Superstition

Everybody Says I'm Too Addicted With " 我爱黑涩会 " Already Until That I Messed Up My Life And So Called Gave Up My " Super Robot Wars " Because Of Them. I Do Admit My Passion Towards " Super Robot Wars " Has Seriously Died Down Alot But The Show Is Really Really Very Interesting. It's Funny Plus Got Girls To See, The Main Thing Is 洪诗 Is In IT !

That Day I Was Watching This Episode Of " 我爱黑涩会 " And They Were Talking About Relationship Maintaining And Things That Couple Shouldn't Do When They Are In A Relationship. Everything They Said Is Actually Quite True Also. I Do Agree With Some Of Them But Not All Of Them Lah.

Some Of Them We May Have Already Know But Some Of Them Is Only Made Known To Me As They Only Apply To The Taiwan Culture. I'll Just Talk About Some Of Them Which I Can Remember.


They Say The Road Of Couples Will Never Be Straight And Smooth. It Will Always Be Full Of Ups And Downs, Which Is A Good Thing To Have. A Straight And Smooth Relationship Does Not Consists Of Quarrels Which means The Relationship Is Not Being Tested Which In The End Will Always Lead To A Breakup Because The Relationship Is Too Fragile Which Cannot Withstand Any Interference Or Obstacles. So Having Small Quarrels And Bickering Which In Turn Is A Good Thing To Have During A Relationship.

They Also Talked About The Guy Always Being The Driver Of The Ger. Guys Will Always Complain Of Being The Driver Of The Ger. Sending And Fetching Almost Everyday. But That's The Only Way That We Can Make Sure The Safety Of The Ger Everyday Mah. Just Doing This Little Part Of The Ger You Like And Making Sure That She Is Safe And Sound Everyday In The End Also Makes You Feel Better. Dun Let It Be A Chore, Let It Be A Responsibility.

When Having A Quarrel Over Things, Don't Always Be The One To Apologise ( For Guys ) , Especially When You Know That You're Definitely Not In The Wrong. Constant Admitting The Fault That Your Other Part Has Made Will Over Pamper Them Which In The End Will Make Them Unreasonable Not Only To You But The People Around Them Also. So Sometimes Arguing With Them Is Not A Bad Thing After All.

The Other Things They Discuss Is More About Superstition Between Couples. Like The Usual Cannot Give Them Shoes Because Giving Them Shoes Which Means Giving Them A Chance To Walk Away Or Run Away. This Is One Of The Superstition Which Also Applies To Friendship Because Shoes To Them Is A Very Sensitive Item. Giving A Pair Of Shoes Means Asking You To Like Walk Out Of Them. So Cock Rite, But This Superstition Is Quite So Called Tested And Proven By Alot Of People.

The Other One They Talked About Is Couples Sharing A Pear. They Say Couples Should Never Share A Pear Because Pear In Chinese Is Call 梨 And Sharing A Pear Is Call 分梨. " 分离 分梨 " In Chinese Is Like Seperation As They Are Pronouced The Same Sound. So Couples In Taiwan Will Avoid Sharing A Pear At All Costs !

Another One Which I Remembered Is That The Couples In Taiwan They Never Say ByeBye To Each Other, Normally They Will Say 再见 And Not ByeBye Because In Taiwan Is Written As 掰掰 And Not Like Singapore Is Written As 拜拜.

Until Now Maybe You Guys Are Same As Me That Time When I hear It But If You See The Word 掰 Carefully, It's Written With 3 Words Which Is 手分手 Which Is Breaking Up. After They Explained About This Then I Understand Why They Say The Couples Never Say ByeBye Because It Means Breaking Up.

So After Watching That Episode I Quite Kinda Agree With What They Say. So Now Who Says " 我爱黑涩会 " Is Bo Liao. It's GOOD OK ! And The Best Thing About It Which I Wanna Say Again Is That 洪诗 Is IN IT !